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I have no problems with my boyfriend paying - ever. In the early days I used to like to pay for myself/ both of us but he almost always pays for me now. It's tough to beat him to it :)

I've never understood that, I'd prefer the relationship before any such thing, but admittedly I'm unusual - ah well - to each their own.

I thought from the opening post that we were discussing whether we considered the instances of 'unwanted sex' referred to as rape - i emphatically consider it not rape for a man to have sex with a intoxicated and consenting woman unless he spiked her drink, etc.

Whaaaaaa? Middle age? Nah. I'm all for waiting till you've developed mentally/emotionally a little more than your average 15 -20 yr old to get involved in those sorts of relationships but to wait to mid-age would be lonely/sad/boring.

Explain yourself? A girl being drunk and agreeing to sex then regretting it does not mean she has been raped. A girl choosing to have sex because her partner ribbed her/begged her does not constitute rape on the blokes part. It's just unwanted sex/regretted sex. If a guy has sex with a drunk...

I don't have perfect clarity in my own mind about where I stand in regards to this issue. Liberal feminist - I think so Difference feminist - yes, mildly so. Socialist feminism - I'm curious. I've felt more troubled by discrimination experienced by men lately, tbh.

I don't think we are discussing rape as the reasons given for experiencing "unwanted sex" seemed to be drunkeness (undermining judgement ) and weakness under peer pressure. EDIT: The answer seems pretty clear, imo.

I'd just ask, but thats me. Watch him with women, men are fairly obvious - even the clever ones.

Ahahaha!:rolleyes:

At your age, you are probably better off working hard, developing frienships and your own abilities than engaging in psuedo romantic relationships anyway (imho). MEN can make wonderful romantic partners when you're older. Boys are a work in progress,few have the maturity for what you'll want -...

If you can do it somewhere private and the guy isn't going to get visibly upset then sure, do it in person.

I hate guys telling me that they like me when I've had no prior idea of the fact whatsoever. I can't respond well to it - my responses to these blind confessions have ranged from laughing ( and awkward silence when i realised he was deadly serious) to crying (he just ruined everything). I...

You need to show this guy respect by being honest with him. Possibly phoning him might be the best option, some guys would really hate to be face to face with a girl while she's dumping him. 1. Tell him that you hate to hurt him but in all honesty you don't care for him in 'that way' enough to...

Oh God, that made me angry.

Thankyou for the overview SP :)

I'm not entirely comfortable with IVF for any person or couple.

I agree with the second part of this post. As a leader I think he comes across as pathetic - I find him embarrassing.

Joe Hockey.... <3.

I've been amused to meet persons who deny the fact of Climate Change - the question is not whether it is occuring but whether it is occuring due to anthropogenic or natural causes. Tellingly, most naysayers don't seem able to articulate WHAT they deny and why. For now, I think I'll place my...

True story :)