How do I find a man who stays fun and interesting? (1 Viewer)

[CrazyStacey474]

>> I've had several boyfriends in the past. In the beginning, they're fun to be around and we talk for hours, and we are practically inseparable. But after 3 or 4 months they seem to change. They don't want to go out and do things with me as much, do fun things, practically ignore me on AIM, ect. It seems like they go into a "I have her forever, I don't have to try anymore" stage, then they're all shocked and confused when I dump them. <<


Maybe its you thats changing... an you find you want something different. Or perhaps become more clingy...besides.. it seems that your too close for a starting of a relationship .. you should maybe take things more slowly an build up on it. = ]

 

[Enteebee]

I've had several girlfriends in the past. In the beginning, they're fun to be around and we fuck for hours, and we are practically inseparable. But after 3 or 4 months they seem to change. They don't want to go down on me as much or have sex and practically ignore my requests for dinner, ect. It seems like they go into a "I've used this guy for all he has, now he's kind of boring" stage, then they're all shocked and confused when I cheat on them.

 

[Roguedeth]

put out

 

[Evilo]

put out

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[iamsickofyear12]

I've had several boyfriends in the past. In the beginning, they're fun to be around and we talk for hours, and we are practically inseparable. But after 3 or 4 months they seem to change. They don't want to go out and do things with me as much, do fun things, practically ignore me on AIM, ect. It seems like they go into a "I have her forever, I don't have to try anymore" stage, then they're all shocked and confused when I dump them.

Why do you need to be around them constantly? Do you not have anything else to do? If you expect nothing less than inseparability then you have way too much spare time.

You need to lower your expectations, find something else to occupy yourself with, and learn to appreciate time alone.

 

[StuntManonFire]

put out

Can't stress this point enough.

 

[wendaYYY]

GIRL, NO WAY

you can't be like all lovey-dovey and blast out all the fun stuff at the start of a relationship and expect the fire to keep on burning

you gotta keep the guy hanging on like a loose shit you know, just so that he doesn't assume that you are completely his

flirt with other guys, ignore him sometimes, threaten to leave him for god's sake!

i can almost write a book on this! all theory no practice LOL

 

[Enteebee]

you gotta keep the guy hanging on like a loose shit you know, just so that he doesn't assume that you are completely his

flirt with other guys, ignore him sometimes, threaten to leave him for god's sake!

He'll just fuck some other loose asian slut, suck shit.

 

[Forbidden.]

GIRL, NO WAY

you can't be like all lovey-dovey and blast out all the fun stuff at the start of a relationship and expect the fire to keep on burning

you gotta keep the guy hanging on like a loose shit you know, just so that he doesn't assume that you are completely his

flirt with other guys, ignore him sometimes, threaten to leave him for god's sake!

i can almost write a book on this! all theory no practice LOL

thnk u 4 tryin 2 steal mah hairstyle

 

[youBROKEmyLIFE]

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[cucum3rs]

(1) Don't be so shit.
(2) Don't listen to The Veronicas.
(3) Show him your tits.

maybe you should write a book

 

[DownInFlames]

GIRL, NO WAY

you can't be like all lovey-dovey and blast out all the fun stuff at the start of a relationship and expect the fire to keep on burning

you gotta keep the guy hanging on like a loose shit you know, just so that he doesn't assume that you are completely his

flirt with other guys, ignore him sometimes, threaten to leave him for god's sake!

i can almost write a book on this! all theory no practice LOL

Deliberately mistreating a guy is a recipe for disaster. If you gain any respect from a guy for doing that, or you need to to get his attention, then you have a pretty shit boyfriend, and it would be better for all concerned to dump him rather than being a shit girlfriend in return.

 

[ice ken]

maybe u havent shown im enuf love

 

[Russdog]

Deliberately mistreating a guy is a recipe for disaster. If you gain any respect from a guy for doing that, or you need to to get his attention, then you have a pretty shit boyfriend, and it would be better for all concerned to dump him rather than being a shit girlfriend in return.

yeah, trying to make the guy jealous is fucking retarded. he'll just think you're a slut and fuck you off.

 

[Zrap]

wrap your fanny around his salami and make a subway sandwich.

 

[williamc]

(1) Don't be so shit.
(2) Don't listen to The Veronicas.
(3) Show him your tits.

fuck off the veronicas are sick kunt.

 

[DownInFlames]

fuck off the veronicas are sick kunt.

You spelt the last word wrong.

 

[Pace_T]

Deliberately mistreating a guy is a recipe for disaster. If you gain any respect from a guy for doing that, or you need to to get his attention, then you have a pretty shit boyfriend, and it would be better for all concerned to dump him rather than being a shit girlfriend in return.

yeah i agree. wendy's logic is fucking shit.

 

[Lizakith]

To be boring and on-topic:

If you think your boyfriends get boring after a few months, why don't YOU try doing something fun for him? Guys seem to cop a lot of flack for not being romantic, but you hardly ever hear of a woman instigating the romance. Women aren't expected to buy flowers, or organise surprise trips away or anything, which I think is crap. Most guys, imo, would love to have their girlfriend do the romancing once in a while.

To close, don't be so childish as to dump them as soon as they relax and stop trying so hard to impress you. Its not complacency, that's the true relationship.

 

[ObjectsInSpace]

You need someone who puts the "sensual" back in "non-consentual" ...