Gay Captain said:
This guy is gay and a jerk and probably just captain of that because they appear to have no other qualities other than this. Also on this thread they appear to be the troll, not the starter of the thread as they were just asking a question.
In response to her question you do have admirable qualities that will reward you in the future but not at the moment i suggest just sit back and enjoy the relationships you have, don't analyse what the guy is doing and wether or not he is taking it easy or not because you will get no enjoyment out of that. just enjoy what you have while it lasts.