what do girls think! (4 Viewers)

Emily. · Nov 3, 2004

well all girls are different
personally, i prefer it if a guy takes the dominant role, asks me out, etc
but some chicks prefer the opposite
*shrugs* learn to read personalities
or minds

Senator04 · Nov 3, 2004

Ive got no idea, what women think obviously, but i reckon it would be pretty hard to generalise. Women are individual in their tastes and likes/dislikes, the secret to finding out what they think is by getting to know them and understanding them better as a person. Example, one girl I know just falls straight if she is sung too or spoken romantically too, yet another friend of mine hates all that, because she fell for a guy once and he did it until he got what he wanted and then stopped. So I reckon its a matter of the individual.

Emily. · Nov 3, 2004

read the ladder theory: www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

Senator04 · Nov 3, 2004

twisted_emily said:
read the ladder theory: www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

I would but its 1AM and it appears to detailed to take in, now.

Emily. · Nov 3, 2004

yeah id advise you to leave it until tomorrow!

Keen · Nov 3, 2004

LADDER THEORY DOESN'T SAY MUCH - have a read of it but you need more.

choc-chip - that thing your friend said isn't funny IT'S TRUE!!!! And that's what guys need to understand.

Pretty much ALL girls (whether they admit it or not) don't want a guy droolling over them and chasing them. You need to flirt with them by being funny (maybe pay them out in a funny way), act confident and act like you don't really care that much whether you score with them or not.
This is simply the truth, you don't need to be stupid (tone the comedy up/down depending on the girl), make your intentions clear but don't start sucking up to them and be pussy wipped.

Follow this advice and you'll go far - but it's much harder to put in practice (I even have trouble - especially with this one girl - but that's another story

)

Keen

choc-chip · Nov 3, 2004

hey! wat abt guys huh? is that happening on guys 2?

Keen · Nov 3, 2004

First I have to say I'm not sure how it works in the reverse. But I think it does play true - i.e. guys like a girl who's pretty confident but not snobby, has a sense of humour, can make him laugh/smile, I think guys love being chased but same as above you have to chase a bit and then take a step back to keep the attraction.
But I've never really thought about it other than what attracts me and that would be a brilliant smile, a twinkle in the eyes, confidence (these days, a year ago I was almost the reverse), a sense of humour and one who'll put up with my craziness.

Keen

Macccca · Nov 3, 2004

they day men understand the workings of the female mind will be the day genders cease t oexist

~SeXcSuM~ · Nov 3, 2004

a guys gotta make u laugh thats the most important thing i reckon
and u should be able to hav a good conversation with him...imagine when ur 2 old and wrinkled for sex...u would want someone there who u can talk to instead....

SipSip · Nov 3, 2004

I'm guessing girls like mature and polite guys...but also not someone who gets nervous and just sits there without saying anything to you...i mean who wants a statue to hug...

Besides, mature and polite doesn't mean that the guy isn't romantic...some guys can show girls a good time while not being a freaken party nutcase...

I'm just curious...do girls actually think guys who drive around with the "duf duf duf" music are hot...cause all i can see is a jerk in a "fast" car...

choc-chip · Nov 3, 2004

since i'm a vain girl, and i like popular guys..
nice-friendly
humour-no stupid jokes, or laghing at their own joke..(but sometimes can be very cute), definitely not sex joking all the time
good taste-clothing, music, cars
good look- having sense of fashion,clean, tidy, sportive
smart-acadamically, socially,
guy knows a little bit abt cooking

SipSip · Nov 3, 2004

choc-chip said:
since i'm a vain girl, and i like popular guys..
nice-friendly
humour-no stupid jokes, or laghing at their own joke..(but sometimes can be very cute), definitely not sex joking all the time
good taste-clothing, music, cars
good look- having sense of fashion,clean, tidy, sportive
smart-acadamically, socially,
guy knows a little bit abt cooking

Yep...i'm the guy for you

choc-chip · Nov 3, 2004

SipSip said:
I'm guessing girls like mature and polite guys...but also not someone who gets nervous and just sits there without saying anything to you...i mean who wants a statue to hug...

Besides, mature and polite doesn't mean that the guy isn't romantic...some guys can show girls a good time while not being a freaken party nutcase...

I'm just curious...do girls actually think guys who drive around with the "duf duf duf" music are hot...cause all i can see is a jerk in a "fast" car...

thoses guys r totally stupid nuts
i reckon shy guys r cute..

SipSip · Nov 3, 2004

choc-chip said:
thoses guys r totally stupid nuts
i reckon shy guys r cute..

what? the guys who goes around "duf duf duf-ing" where the heck do they get the music from anyway?? or is it just some hilary duff cd turned up heaps loud with lots of bass....

shy to the point where they blush?? (#^.^#)

choc-chip · Nov 3, 2004

SipSip said:
what? the guys who goes around "duf duf duf-ing" where the heck do they get the music from anyway?? or is it just some hilary duff cd turned up heaps loud with lots of bass....

shy to the point where they blush?? (#^.^#)

LOL..blushing...
just not asking every single gal 2 go out is fine
BTW..ur cute

SipSip · Nov 3, 2004

choc-chip said:
LOL..blushing...
just not asking every single gal 2 go out is fine
BTW..ur cute

Why thank you! (#^.^#)

By the looks of the above...i'm also chubby!! ^^

Well...i think guys who ask every single one out are called players...or womanisers...they are bad bad guys...

thorrnydevil · Nov 3, 2004

jumb said:
Thats a lie. Read the ladder theory. Polite boys are friends, arrogant bastards get girlfiends.

Basically, make her laugh and act a touch overconfident and you will go well.

Exactly, the Ladder Theory reigns supreme. I used to be a "quiet, polite boy" but that never got me anywhere. Now I'm just going to be an arsehole.

BabySilver · Nov 3, 2004

thorrnydevil said:
Exactly, the Ladder Theory reigns supreme. I used to be a "quiet, polite boy" but that never got me anywhere. Now I'm just going to be an arsehole.

DAMN and i was going to spend the weekend looking for a quiet polite boy!

Guess I'll have to go the dirty old man instead

Shuter · Nov 3, 2004

BabySilver said:
DAMN and i was going to spend the weekend looking for a quiet polite boy!

Guess I'll have to go the dirty old man instead

Don't worry, you were too far down on his ladder anyway.

(I'm in)

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