Today's Lesson (1 Viewer)

[iamsickofyear12]

When you are going somewhere people don't expect you to be... be obvious about it... walk loudly or slam doors or something.....

Today I came downstairs to find my dad (who is married to my mum) hooking up with a friend (who is also married). I don't know if there is some kind of explanation, there could be, although it is somewhat unlikely... I just don't want to know this.

I don't know how I am going to be able to not think about this every time I see these people... They didn't see me so at least I don't have to have an embarrassing discussion about it.

I really, really do not want to know this.

From now on I am going to wear a bell around my neck or something.

 

[Tulipa]

...ouch

Go get really fucking drunk.

Best cure.

 

[The_highwayman]

does your dad know you saw?

 

[iamsickofyear12]

does your dad know you saw?

Fortunately he doesn't.

 

[Tulipa]

Do you still live at home with your parents?

 

[iamsickofyear12]

Do you still live at home with your parents?

Yeah

 

[The_highwayman]

damn. awkwardness central.

i have no idea what to advise....

 

[Tulipa]

damn. awkwardness central.

i have no idea what to advise....

Neither.

Do you want to ignore it or do you want to do something about?

 

[breaking]

blackmail time!

 

[iamsickofyear12]

I forgot to mention. She isn't really my dad's friend, she is a family friend. She lives just down the street. At least once or twice a week they are at my house or I am at theirs.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

Neither.

Do you want to ignore it or do you want to do something about?

I want to ignore it... but I don't know how well that is going to work. Every time I get up to walk around the house I am going to remember this and deliberately be loud about it.

 

[morganforrest]

massively awkward....i wouldn't know how to react...i think ur options are;
a) ignore it and try to forget
b) talk to him about it

either way its gunna be a shit fight

 

[Tulipa]

Maybe you should just get it out in the open?

It'll suck more to forget it.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

Maybe you should just get it out in the open?

I thought about doing that but just thinking about it freaks me out.

 

[The_highwayman]

but how can you ignore something like this?
i know i would struggle, but at the same time, i wouldnt want to mention it because of the repercussions.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

but how can you ignore something like this?
i know i would struggle, but at the same time, i wouldnt want to mention it because of the repercussions.

That is why I made a thread about it. There is no way I could keep this completely to myself without going crazy... but I am pretty confident that I don't ever want to talk to anyone who is actually involved about it.

 

[CieL]

What exactly did "hooking up" involve?

 

[jumb]

When you are going somewhere people don't expect you to be... be obvious about it... walk loudly or slam doors or something.....

Yeah, I always do that.

Sounds like time to repress some memories that will only come out when you start talking to a psychologist about your depression and substance abuse.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

What exactly did "hooking up" involve?

Kissing and stuff... they weren't having sex or anything. I got out of there as quickly as possible. If I did see them doing any more than that I would be having a nervous breakdown right now.

 

[^CoSMic DoRiS^^]

oh god. thats so awkward. :S :S
it's probably better to get it out in the open...but fuck, i wouldn't either. aaah. go drink alot, or something.