if i sleep with a guy prior to marriage, i've gotta have some STRONNNGG feelings towards him, i.e. we're definately gonna get married - not just a small hope that we do.. but it's all set and everything [still dont really believe in sex before marriage] - and honestly if i went out and slept with my boyfriend now, i'd honestly believe that we were gonna get married - however, 17's a little young to be thinking about marriage, gotta finish the hsc first! lol
hmm - and btw santaslayer it doesnt just happen in movies - there are plenty of people out there who havent had sex ever, who are just waiting until they marry or whatever, so your odds of finding a chick/guy like that aint slim. even though many people arent willing to admit to being virgins - it's true that there are many EVERYWHERE..
so yeah
that's my opinion
no sex before marriage - because it's wrong in my eyes [i was raised this way]
but if you wanna go out and "try before you buy" well - go for it