dude thats totally true. like my year has been rather terrible, just came out of a 12 month relationship because she wanted sum other guy, then as i said my next girl does not understand commitment to training. but like u i refuse to be in a relationship where im not happy. because im so busy i guess whilst i would like to be in a relationship i just dnt want to be so desperate that im looking for it. if it happens itll b all sweet. untill then ill stay married to my gym.