great! a place to vent my spleen.
firstly, i have no problem with teeny bopper badly acted films. that wasn't my issue. neither do i have a problem with romcoms - in fact, for the most part, i love them. hilary duff, meh, i prefer her to lindsay but really that's about it. she's not awful but i don't love her either.
HOWEVER. i actually thought it was a terrible movie for several reasons. it was offensive and had very questionable ethics.
the offense primarily lies in the depiction of carson. yeah, he's shallow in real life, but who cares? in this film the only representation of homosexuals is of a completely superficial fag. funny? ok, what about a movie where the only representation of black people is of a servant or the guy who just says "man", "shit" or "that is whacked"? see what i mean?
there was also the fact that i thought it was completely dirty and wrong that the daughter impersonated a man for her mother, and that the mother impersonated her daughter when talking to said daughter's boyfriend-of-sorts.
but my MAIN problem lay in the representation of hilary's character. IMO she was a complete brat. waa waa waa, i want things my way! i always accommodate for you and you never understand!! this whinginess was not only not addressed by the film, but actually supported. the worst thing of all was when hilary managed to blame her mother for the scheme that SHE created. the message it's sending out is that it is great and admirable to be a self-absorbed teenager who refuses to take the blame. i think that is incredibly wrong.
add the fact that hilary ruined the restaurant with water damage (something that would cost many thousands of dollars) without a hint of remorse but "oh yay, we should be CIA agents"...for such a dumb thing...and the fact that she totally ruined someone's wedding without saying sorry and actually had the PRESUMPTION to tell a grown man that she knew who his soulmate was without him meeting her...
i'm sorry, but this film wasn't just bad. it was abhorrent.