Sticky Situation (1 Viewer)

[conch575]

I'm going out with a guy who is 22, and I am 16. I have told my mother that he is 20 and she was cool with *that* age gap.. Now I feel bad for lying to her, should I tell her how old he really is?

 

[Davo1111]

yep you should tell her. why the fuck are you going out with someone that old, hes probably a pedo.

i feel sorry for your mum

 

[conch575]

yep you should tell her. why the fuck are you going out with someone that old, hes probably a pedo.

i feel sorry for your mum

Haha that's not nice =\

 

[dan2452]

Yeah, that is a really big age gap. Maybe keep quiet about it, unless you intend to get deeper into a relationship, in which case it is best to tell her.

 

[conch575]

Yeah, that is a really big age gap. Maybe keep quiet about it, unless you intend to get deeper into a relationship, in which case it is best to tell her.

I know it's a big age gap, but it's seriously not a *big thing* if that makes sense.. We never think about it, we enjoy each others company. I guess it wouldn't seem as big when we're both older.

 

[philphie]

he's your english teacher isn't he? haven't i seen this on neighbours before?

 

[conch575]

he's your english teacher isn't he? haven't i seen this on neighbours before?

You watch Neighbours? Lost all respect for you, man.

 

[philphie]

lol i get bored sometimes ok!!!!

 

[philphie]

i prefer it when malcom in the middle was on at that time slot

 

[conch575]

i prefer it when malcom in the middle was on at that time slot

Malcolm In The Middle is a far better show. I'd even prefer Futurama!! Simpsons then Futurama, it'd remind me of the Fox 8 lineup.

 

[dan2452]

Cleveland show should be gotten rid of

 

[chelsea girl]

i thought this was going to be about semen.



anyway, don't say anything. you'll probably break up anyway and if you tell your mum it'll just cause stupid fighting that doesn't need to exist.

 

[Amogh]

lol funny how this went from "omg my mum will hate me" to "i love simpsons"

 

[Ethanescence]

I'm going out with a guy who is 22, and I am 16. I have told my mother that he is 20 and she was cool with *that* age gap.. Now I feel bad for lying to her, should I tell her how old he really is?

22 years old is alright if it's a healthy, consensual and safe relationship. A friend of mine, she was only 16 and was going out with a 30 year old. That's pushing it a bit.

I think you should tell your mother he is 22 though. If you're not mature enough to tell your mother the truth about a man you are dating, then you probably aren't ready for such a relationship anyway.

 

[conch575]

i thought this was going to be about semen.



anyway, don't say anything. you'll probably break up anyway and if you tell your mum it'll just cause stupid fighting that doesn't need to exist.

I thought a semen-sounding title would draw people's attention! Yeah I think that's a good idea.. Even though I don't like to think about breaking up, I'll think realistically.. I don't want her hating me for lying or anything.. It has been 6 months that I've been lying to her..

Cleveland show should be gotten rid of

All Family Guy is pretty crap..

lol funny how this went from "omg my mum will hate me" to "i love simpsons"

Hahaha.. I DO love Simpsons, and Futurama..

 

[conch575]

22 years old is alright if it's a healthy, consensual and safe relationship. A friend of mine, she was only 16 and was going out with a 30 year old. That's pushing it a bit.

I think you should tell your mother he is 22 though. If you're not mature enough to tell your mother the truth about a man you are dating, then you probably aren't ready for such a relationship anyway.

Yes, it's healthy and consensual, he said he doesn't want to do anything until I'm ready and 18 or older.

I really don't know what to do now, I think I might discuss it with him and come up with a decision, with all these arguments in mind.

 

[philphie]

she said it wasn't serious so why worry her

 

[Amogh]

how'd you get intimate with this guy in the first place..
i mean i usually just stick with people in my age bracket
and ye..
tis all good aslong as..well..he doesnt try doing stuff to you..

 

[dan2452]

As long as he's not taking advantage it doesn't really matter. 22 is still fairly ok, but 24 and up is too much.

 

[alex.leon]

i thought this was going to be about semen.

so did i.

thats it, im going to bed.



oh, and to actually make this post constructive- a 6 year age gap taking into consideration both of your ages and subsequent levels of maturity is quite significant.