So what's new with you and your significant other/crush/desired person/ etc? (1 Viewer)

[annagurl]

Ok. Explain the changes? Like friendship with everyone around you?
Tell them how you feel. Tell them you're not looking for a relationship at the moment.
Do you actually want to say no?
Cause if you're a no, you would of already said no.

Just friendship with him... I want to decline the dude but I know how he is and he'll probably get really hurt and stop talking to me completely. Forever... probably.

 

[Squishxmishyx]

If your politely denying him and he's not taking the hint, you have to use force

This.
And you're leading him on if you're "politely denying him".
Unless you want to? o.o

Just friendship with him... I want to decline the dude but I know how he is and he'll probably get really hurt and stop talking to me completely. Forever... probably.

Tell him you don't want to loose his friendship.
Be assertive.
It might be awkward at first and he might not want to see you much, but that's the only way that he can get over it.
It might hurt him if you're around. So you will probably loose his friendship for a while, depending on his type.

Alternatively, say yes =D

 

[annagurl]

This.
And you're leading him on if you're "politely denying him".
Unless you want to? o.o


Tell him you don't want to loose his friendship.
Be assertive.
It might be awkward at first and he might not want to see you much, but that's the only way that he can get over it.
It might hurt him if you're around. So you will probably loose his friendship for a while, depending on his type.

Alternatively, say yes =D

Aww... i'm such a bitch. Told him I was going out that day with my friends...

I think telling him i'm busy that day is the same as saying no. Right?

 

[Squishxmishyx]

I think telling him i'm busy that day is the same as saying no. Right?

Depends, my boyfriend asked me out and I said I needed to study for maths...
Then he asked me out the next weekend. And I said yes. <3

 

[Arcorn]

I think telling him i'm busy that day is the same as saying no. Right?

You're really bad with guys. You have to actually say no, otherwise he'll keep trying.

 

[jumb]

I think telling him i'm busy that day is the same as saying no. Right?

You're better off being honest. Flat out say you're not interested in a relationship with him, but you're always keen on hanging out as just friends. He'll stop bugging you when you tell him he's not going to get any off you.

 

[MysteryGenius]

I think telling him i'm busy that day is the same as saying no. Right?

Nope
If you mean no, just say it. The sooner you do it, the better..

 

[Omie Jay]

just be honest so u dont get his hopes up

 

[annagurl]

What if I just ignore him for a while. Like... cut all contact with him for like a month?
I can't bring myself to say no.

 

[Arcorn]

This guy seems similar to what I used to be like. In his head he'll need to hear no otherwise he won't be able to move on. Plus, it will make it seem like you are less heartless in the long run.

 

[Omie Jay]

What if I just ignore him for a while. Like... cut all contact with him for like a month?
I can't bring myself to say no.

noo tell him upfront

 

[annagurl]

noo tell him upfront

Should I say I like someone else? or does that hurt more than "I don't like you that way, i'm sorry. Let's just be friends?"

 

[MysteryGenius]

It'll be a whole lot worse if you avoid him >.<

 

[Arcorn]

Just tell him you don't feel that way about him. If you tell him you like someone else he will be wondering what is wrong with him and what is so great about this other unnamed person.

 

[Omie Jay]

um dont dig yourself into deeper holes! just tell the truth about it!

 

[annagurl]

Aww man, I should have said no to begin with. Then I wouldn't be in the predicament. *sigh*
I shall tell him the truth... if/when he asks me out again.

 

[Arcorn]

Good.

 

[abbeyroad]

give him and blowjob and not talk to him again afterwards

 

[Bread_2_Toast]

Should I say I like someone else? or does that hurt more than "I don't like you that way, i'm sorry. Let's just be friends?"

hahahahaha how old are you? 12? fuck.

 

[annagurl]

I'm sixteen :3