My HSC results this this year are a lot lower than I expected them to be (I /saw/ it coming because I slacked a lot, but seeing it in print sort of seals the deal). I'm devastated, and so are my parents. I wanted to do Comp Sci. at UNSW and then maybe try for Post-Grad Med, but that isn't happening due to my ATAR.
My new plan is to do another Computing course in UTS and then hopefully transfer to UNSW, but both my parents (especially my father) are telling me to repeat year 12. They're both incredibly angry at me and my Dad isn't speaking to me. I don't know what to do. They've lost all faith in me, and think my plan is terrible and they don't think I can do well in Uni.
I'm really confused as to what to do. Is my plan okay? Or should I listen and repeat Year 12?
Repeating year 12 is the worst thing that you can possibly do unless it is something you truly want to do your self, not being forced by your parents. You have to be highly self motivated and determined to do better if you repeat.
My ante and her husband are both doctors, their son was always into computers, he never studied in year 12 because he was always outside with friends playing computer games and working with computers. He achieved a very low UAI so his parents forced him to repeat. The first time he repeated he suffered from depression and he lost desire to eat so his weight dropped to 55 kg. He repeated AGAIN and the same thing happened and he repeated a 3rd time and then he got really angry at his parents and left the house. He then used his initial UAI (85) to do computer engineering and he worked with computers for about 2 years and at the age of 23 his parents decided to send him to another country in Europe to do medicine at a private university (they paid a lot of money), he completed the degree about 2 years ago finally at the age of 29! He is now 31 years old, got married and now is unemployed because he doesn't like medicine.
Why do you want to do medicine? Medicine is really over-rated and people think it is the best... it isn't academically challenging, it is a lot of rote-learning, what is challenging is the years of study and practice. You DO NOT do medicine unless you are passionate about it and btw medicine has a high atar because of the demand not the money so do what you truly like not what your parents tell you. Saying medicine is the "most prestigious degree" and "the best degree" is very ignorant! There are many other professions that are easier to get into (not because they are academically easier) that are just as good in terms of jobs/money and are very highly respected worldwide i.e. engineering, science, commerce etc...
If you repeat year 12 it is kinda too late now because schools already started (you can repeat at tafe if you want).
You have to be very serious and mature about this decision, many people get depressed when they repeat and some of them think they already know everything so they don't study.
If you don't get into med do something else man... go to UTS, do comp science and then transfer to USYD or UNSW to a better degree, not necessarily med, maybe BSc physics and then master in medical physics? it is a nice field and you get to work mostly with treatment with radiation etc...