So that means, according to the ladder theory, that the guy live with the fact that he may always remain as just a friend, as friends rarely jump ladders...spooky's.gal said:dont say a word. it will only screw things up between u and ur friend. plus she would probably tell the bf and he wouldnt want u around her, would cause trouble etc.
if u stay around and be just a friend then maybe if things dont work out with this guy u can make a move then?
but why wud she want him as just a friend, when they could both have more???lengstar said:I know a friend that jumped the ladder. He was a very close friend of her's though and it was an exceptional circumstance.
yeah, but what if she really wasn't going out with someone else, and u knew this for a fact...Argonaut said:That's risky, and could jeopardise everything: if you told someone you liked them and you knew they were going out with someone else, it would probably make you look rather sleazy.
yeah well u cry and cry some more. we'll all end up like lonely old farts. nobody wants us. die alone. fuck anythign that movies.minicam said:What do u do if the girl u like has just started going out with this other guy (who u dont particularly like) and u still havent told her u like her?
Do u tell her?
Do u not?
Or do u do something else?
yeah, ok... but the problem is I KNOW minicam personally, and she told me that she isn't seeing anyone...Argonaut said:Kronkite, I'm using the example provided:So I guess it's obvious that minicam knows she's going out with another guy. If he tells her, it's only going to reflect badly upon him. He has nothing to gain and everything to lose in telling her. This isn't a movie, she's not going to leave this other guy for minicam the instant she finds out that he likes her.
And if minicam knew she wasn't going out with someone for sure, he probably wouldn't have posted this thread to begin with because the problem would not exist in the first place.
yeah... its a pity how "money talks" in today's society...Argonaut said:Let's start an online community then where we can discuss our woes and worries to other users and reminisce about how we always like this person or that person but were too slow and they went off with someone else to become rich and famous and now we're sitting here in a low-paying job and ... <sniff-sniff> ... WWWAAAAAAAAAAHHHH!
so what's that supposed to mean, ha?Argonaut said:Don't worry, just take it as a grain of salt.
no u gave me a complexArgonaut said:Huh? Sorry, I don't think you got the point of that post. Either that or I don't get yours.
Whaddaya say, Pookie? Like the idea?