Porn is such a useful instructive device. Where else would one learn the techniques for effective clitoral stimulation, diverse copulation positions, erotic ways for putting on condoms and how to act really, really, really badly.
Look - by viewing porn everyone's sexual experience is improved. Without porn to suggest interesting ideas we would still be going at it Amish-style, i.e. a three-minute missonary chore punctuated with grunts from the man who, after climaxing, promptly falls asleep leaving his partner to flick herself off alone in the cold orange glow of an almost enxtinguished candle.
Do you want to be like that Amish lass? Do you?
Of course not - let him watch his DVDs and look at his magazines. You should join in too - it can be a very enjoyable experience for both to look at porn, talk dirtly about it (pashing at the same time, of course) before leading up to a 'hands on' period once both your blood is hot, hot, hot and you can't restrain the passion any longer and your animal instincts erupt - your skin warm to touch, your nerves tingling, your mind focussed on one thing and your vocal cords straining under the pressure of your repeated shouts - YES! YES! Oh sweet mother of Jeebus YES!
Just a suggestion. It has worked for me