marella said:
shit, you dont get me at all do you? your just making judgements about me, someone you dont even know! did you notice on the biggest loser they only had really really overweight people? it was bad but i feel sorry for the way they were embarrassed like that, yes it was their choice but still, i think it would have been embarrassing. being overweight is bad, obese is even worse but im trying to say that we should treat everyone the same istead of labelling them all the time. yes i agree with you in many ways but i dont agree with the way you treat others. im not on here to get people to feel sorry for me because i dont need it. i came on here for help with my HSC and found this the other day.
No one is judging you dear, they can't see you through the monitor
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But seriously, I've had a few overweight friends, and even though confidence is a great trait, arrogance isn't. And I've noticed that its the latter that tends to lead them to being unsociable, as this 'self-conciousness' leads them thinking everyone is attacking them when no one actually is.
What I'm trying to say is it doesn't matter how big your are, if you're Body Mass Index suggests you're overweight and it's not muscle, this could lead to heart attacks, strokes, pregnancy problems, poor blood circulation, and a long list of other diseases that you can otherwise prevent now. I'm sure you're already aware of this, but are you going to do anything about it?? or sit there and wait for people to tell you that the problem will go away? I really hope you can understand me as this is not a personal attack but advice I will give to my own friends.