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veanz said:
im all alone...theres nobody here...that donkey shrek song...

pisssed off, wish i did say hi to him...far out.

how does one overcome shyness???
the trick is to have a reason to talk to him
that way, if you get along, you're sweet
if you don't, you had a reason to talk to him/ask him something, now you've done it you don't have to talk to him anymore

works like a charm.
 

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yep caitlin is right, if anything guys like it when shy girls speak to them, makes them feel good (at least i do :p )
 

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guys love it when any girl comes up and speaks to them.
 

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veanz said:
pisssed off, wish i did say hi to him...far out.

how does one overcome shyness???
just do it without thinking about what you're doing, take a deep breath, swallow, and do it.

there's nothing wrong with taking a chance if you have nothing to lose, except maybe a bit of pride. if you need to, think of the regret you will have later.

works wonders :)


edit: i'll add what virgin^sexy said, think of something right now that you can keep in your head to say to him, something simple to start a convo. that way when you just say hi with a blank mind, you have a quick backup.
 

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Tommy_Lamp said:
yep caitlin is right, if anything guys like it when shy girls speak to them, makes them feel good (at least i do :p )

im even getting nervous as i write this! hehe i think ive got it bad...

i wish i could think like that when the situation came to, but something unconciously hinders me... and its hard to break something ur not concious of. :rolleyes:
 

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veanz said:
im even getting nervous as i write this! hehe i think ive got it bad...

i wish i could think like that when the situation came to, but something unconciously hinders me... and its hard to break something ur not concious of. :rolleyes:
i am TELLING you!!
just think of some excuse to talk to him
eg, if he is a guy on your bus, ask him what subjects he does so you can swap notes
that's what i did hehe
and it worked!

so just think of something, and then start talkingggg
 

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virgin^sexy said:
i am TELLING you!!
just think of some excuse to talk to him
eg, if he is a guy on your bus, ask him what subjects he does so you can swap notes
that's what i did hehe
and it worked!

so just think of something, and then start talkingggg
*yiddishly says* oi!

hehe ive left out particular details...
1. i only know him through one course i did in highschool - therefore have never really had a proper convo.
2. hes doing completely diff uni degrees to me
3. i hardly ever see him :( its only serendiptious when i do...!
4. infatuation...intimidation to how freakn smart he is...
5. haha i go red sooo easily!

so whats a girl to do? twas too late, and now awaiting fate.

the humanity... :(
 

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just be confident. Don't be suprised the amount of guys would buckle like sissys whenever there is a confident girl. Guys like confidence.
 

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Tusitula said:
just be confident. Don't be suprised the amount of guys would buckle like sissys whenever there is a confident girl. Guys like confidence.
the OC has its helpful moments :)
 

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ahh yes, but that applies to girls.

Un confident guys (most of us who aren't influenced) dont know what to do when their approached by confident girls.
 

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Tusitula said:
ahh yes, but that applies to girls.

Un confident guys (most of us who aren't influenced) dont know what to do when their approached by confident girls.
what do you mean by confident girls?
 

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mr_speedy said:
he means girls that approach guys
bingo, i would never pick up off a street unless i knew who they were.
 

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veanz said:
*yiddishly says* oi!

hehe ive left out particular details...
1. i only know him through one course i did in highschool - therefore have never really had a proper convo.
2. hes doing completely diff uni degrees to me
3. i hardly ever see him :( its only serendiptious when i do...!
4. infatuation...intimidation to how freakn smart he is...
5. haha i go red sooo easily!

so whats a girl to do? twas too late, and now awaiting fate.

the humanity... :(
umm that sounds like a perfectly good conversation starter to me
'hey, didn't i have a class with you at school?'
then he'll be like 'oh yes, i did'
and then you can be like 'wow, i like, never spoke to you!'
and then you'll start talking regularly
and then you'll get married!

and props for going for a smart guy, they are the best.
 

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virgin^sexy said:
umm that sounds like a perfectly good conversation starter to me
'hey, didn't i have a class with you at school?'
then he'll be like 'oh yes, i did'
and then you can be like 'wow, i like, never spoke to you!'
and then you'll start talking regularly
and then you'll get married!

and props for going for a smart guy, they are the best.
teehee its as simple as that :)!

and hes not just smart...he has the sexiest, most soothing voice ever! lol methinks me is smitten

but you havnt considered the serendipitious dependence of our meeting?!
 

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veanz said:
teehee its as simple as that :)!

and hes not just smart...he has the sexiest, most soothing voice ever! lol methinks me is smitten

but you havnt considered the serendipitious dependence of our meeting?!
ahahhaa smitten
trust me i have been there

the fact that you rarely get to see him should make you want to speak to him even more on the odd occasion that you DO see him. make the most of it!
 
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