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shinji said:
lol

i was saddened by it; but eh; i'm beginning to see that we wouldn't have made a good couple anyways. she hadly tlks to me nemore.

'meh.
That's right..

Take it like a man. Shit happens in life. Deal with it and move on.

Respect to you brother.
 

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just tell her , orelse ur gona regret it for the rest of ur life. and if she dosent feel the same way u do, well wat can u do?..as long as u told her and its off ur chest! Be brave, dnt be shy!
 

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dsam said:
That's right..

Take it like a man. Shit happens in life. Deal with it and move on.

Respect to you brother.
lol yeah.

life's too short to be regretting the choices that you've made.

and btw michael; she was the 2nd girl that i've asked out.
both failed miserably. bahaha.
 

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shinji said:
lol yeah.

life's too short to be regretting the choices that you've made.

and btw michael; she was the 2nd girl that i've asked out.
both failed miserably. bahaha.
you guys are giving me inspiration!

but i know she will say she doesn't want a boyfriend, i know this for a fact. But i just want to know if she likes me without having to ask, i know this way i will never get the information. I will ask her next time i talk to her. I will just bluntly say i like you lol.

I will post her response on her as well.
 

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just tell her and if she rejects just tell her that u'll always bee there for her...dun promise anything if u can't keep them but u know just look out for her if u still like her

Follow these 5 simple rules if u can:

1. make sure she has SUM1 to comfort her when she cries
2. make sure she has SUM1 to protect her wen she afraid
3. make sure she has SUM1 to lift her up wen she falls
4. make sure u just be yourself wen she needs a fwen
5. just tell her u love her

i had a similar problem like u i followed these rules and they worked for me lol

good luck mate

P.S...u mite go all emo if she likes rejects u real bad....it happen to me but she came around and apologized....i got stuck with her ever since
 

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born2bkinggg said:
just tell her and if she rejects just tell her that u'll always bee there for her...dun promise anything if u can't keep them but u know just look out for her if u still like her

Follow these 5 simple rules if u can:

1. make sure she has SUM1 to comfort her when she cries
2. make sure she has SUM1 to protect her wen she afraid
3. make sure she has SUM1 to lift her up wen she falls
4. make sure u just be yourself wen she needs a fwen
5. just tell her u love her

i had a similar problem like u i followed these rules and they worked for me lol

good luck mate

P.S...u mite go all emo if she likes rejects u real bad....it happen to me but she came around and apologized....i got stuck with her ever since
lol

are you could just brush it off as a joke and go like
"well.. i didn't like ur shoes either!'

that would really confuse her. haha
 

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michael1990 said:
you guys are giving me inspiration!

but i know she will say she doesn't want a boyfriend, i know this for a fact. But i just want to know if she likes me without having to ask, i know this way i will never get the information. I will ask her next time i talk to her. I will just bluntly say i like you lol.

I will post her response on her as well.
glad that i/we could help. =]
 

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dsam said:
How long have you known her for?
I have known her for about 6 years. Which isn't bad lol

She has always been a friend, but since year 2 years ago she has become my best friend :)
 

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lol

are you could just brush it off as a joke and go like
"well.. i didn't like ur shoes either!'

that would really confuse her. haha

loll.. i like that one, thats funny
 

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look i had a very similar issue a year and a haft ago and i fucked it up
u got a few choses
1) u tell her, out right
2) u turn the conversation so that u can tell if she like anyone one else if not hint that u like her
3) get someone else to tell her. when she question u on it, just claim that you just said u wouldn't mind going out with her
4) keep puting it off till she get herself another man and then regret it for the next year and a haft at lest

trust me don't let 4 occur
biggest regrets in my life

if 4 occur see my "what to do" thread
 

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fuck thread just roll over and die honestly,
please perish in a housefire thread.
 

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ubernuton said:
look i had a very similar issue a year and a haft ago and i fucked it up
u got a few choses
1) u tell her, out right
2) u turn the conversation so that u can tell if she like anyone one else if not hint that u like her
3) get someone else to tell her. when she question u on it, just claim that you just said u wouldn't mind going out with her
4) keep puting it off till she get herself another man and then regret it for the next year and a haft at lest

trust me don't let 4 occur
biggest regrets in my life

if 4 occur see my "what to do" thread
Yes, this is so true. Its very scary, but what i am thinking is if i do tell her and she doesn't feel the same way, she WILL distance herself from me, which is what i dont want. It was also become a 'weird atmospher' when we are around each other.

How do i avoid this?
Or as i have come to the realisation there is no way to avoid it.
 

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ubernuton said:
2) u turn the conversation so that u can tell if she like anyone one else if not hint that u like her
Look, for you, I think that is the best option. If you are friendly enough with her, you could just bring that up in conversation or whatever.

Do not let option four happen. However, I will agree with what someone earlier in the thread said, if you are going to tell her, be confident, chin up, show you have a pair.
 

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'meh

i'd advise Michael to tell her how he feels about her; or just ask her out on a date. and see how things go onfrom there.

honestly i'm getting sick of this.
i understand how u feel; but how hestitant can you be.? =/
once you find your feelings towardssomething; then go for it.

girl's don't fall for hestitant guys. let me tell you that.

there's no sense in crying over everything.
=/


loll.. i like that one, thats funny
I'm a funny guy. =]
 

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THANKS FOR THE ADVICE PEOPLE!

I will tell you what has come of me telling her, next time i talk to her, i will tell her.

JUST BLURTED OUT!
 

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michael1990 said:
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE PEOPLE!

I will tell you what has come of me telling her, next time i talk to her, i will tell her.

JUST BLURTED OUT!
If that's how you want to do it, then good for you, just remember to be confident. Best of luck with it. Like those previously, I am expecting an analysis of events.
 

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Muz4PM said:
Like those previously, I am expecting an analysis of events.
Yes yes, i will post what she says on here.
Or i could just send her a message now?
 

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No no no, be a man, do it in person. Message is a wimpy way of telling someone you like them.
 

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I think she thought i like her as a friend.

Because she signed into MSN
and i just go Rachel (not her name) I LIKE YOU.

and she goes Random.

Maybe i actually say i like you more than a friend.
 
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