wafflesnsorbet said:
I think homosexuals should get the right to a civil union, but not marriage, because marriage is marriage.
That would simply differentiate people once more - is it that hard to apply the same word/phrase to same sex and opposite sex couples?
wafflesnsorbet said:
Marriage has never been about love, period. It has always been first and foremost a legal union.
I agree, its a pooling of resources and a legal bequest of certain rights and status to a couple. However society has, in most cultures and time periods, redefined marriage as it suits them and I would argue that it has currently defined marriage (in the social/cultural sense) as based on affection as well as rights and status.
sam04u said:
In religion 'god forbids homosexuality', and anatomicaly, there is no natural mentality or chemical imbalance which definately will cause a person to be homosexual. Therefore, it can be understood that the environment results in a person being homosexual.
Thats a fairly faulty application of the process of elimination:
- Religion can be and has been contested as a construct of man by those by don't believe. Those that do believe however, would most likely acknowledge that religion coincides with the development of information societies which again is not completely 'natural'. And those that contest that won't neccesarily believe in god (including religions such as buddhism that do not condemn homosexuality). So that may not be the best point to use - at least not in that manner.
- Your statement 'which definately [sic] will' only implies that it is not absolutely proven that mental or chemical factors will cause homosexuality rather than 'those factors absolutely will not cause homosexuality'. You haven't referenced your pronouncements with any credible articles or journals either. So it might not be appropriate to use in the process of elimination.
- Ergo, you have not conclusively eliminated either of the points you have raised nor have you eliminated countless other points, so you can't realistically say that 'it can be understood in a person being homosexual.'
sam04u said:
If you're arguing that Homosexuality is a natural process then you're wrong, It's been proven through experimentation that it only occurs when the natural environment is changed. (In this arguement you're wrong 100%)
Which experiment is 100% certain that homosexuality is caused by the environment? Links please.
sam04u said:
Okay, I'm 100% right, but I'll elaborate to help you understand. A female dog is locked in a cell with only one other female dog. Soon they will become aroused by one another and resort in masturbation or mutual-masturbation. Evidence of this is prisons where an EXTREME change in environment takes place, and as a result an astounding number of people 'become' homosexual. Unless you want to suggest they were 'born homosexual', which is another stupid thing you could say. That would be saying 'homosexuals' are more likely to commit crimes... (would you say that?)
While I realise that your position is that different environments causes sexual 'deviancies', that seems to be a fairly untenable position. If we wish to look at history and culture (domestic and foreign) you will see that homosexuality exists in most, if not all, of them(greece, persia, china, london etc. covering time periods that go back as far as history is able). You'll also see the same thing with animals, across the spectrum in the various ways of life. This means, if we look at as some form of social experiment that even when making the social, cultural and nutritional factors into variables then homosexuality still exists.
It also should be noted that engaging(oft without consent) in an activity is different from possessing a sexuality. A gay man or woman could equally engage in hetero intercourse without being hetero or bi.
sam04u said:
Nobody is 'born a homosexual.', I've also seen 'animals' that eat shit, therefore humans should too right? Bonobos, well it does seem like as 'nolanistic would say' some pseudo-science crap which national geographic uses to 'gain an audiesnce', but it isn't as breakthrough as the other scientific research and evidence. (Like environment in prisons where a direct link can be made).
Your faeces ingestion analogy does not make sense - how does whether we 'should eat shit' have anything to with the causes of homosexuality? And if you feel you can make more legitimate and authoritative references than National Geographic which debate the point then reference them.
wafflesnsorbet said:
As I stated before. I'm not against it. Let love be love. But what I am against is the fact that it often isn't about love (1), and that making gay marriages legal would only act to commercialise homosexuality (2) and make it less about emotions and more about sex (3). Sure, it may or may not be natural. There are historical figures that displayed homosexual tendencies. But why must people have to announce it to the whole frigging world about their sexual proclivities? Good God. Just shut up already. If you really were in love, you wouldn't make such a big deal about it. (Just look at Tom Cruise). It is called EXHIBITIONISM.
(1)This fact is derived from where?
(2)Commercialise homosexuality - you care because?
(3)Maybe thats got something to do with the fact that if you don't disclose it, you get
told you are hetero and people assume what you want and think. Also, you'd be hard pressed to find a straight/bi guy or girl who has never chatted about the romantic/physical aspects of the opposite sex, which is just as exhibitionistic as telling people you are gay/bi if not more so.