Help needed with a girl (1 Viewer)

[anonuser]

Hi,

I'm really keen on this girl I am friends with, but am not sure what to do.
We've been friends for about 2 years, and we're both studying Year 12. She's an absolutely gorgeous girl with a great personality; couldn't be more perfect in my eyes. It's almost as if she's the girl I've been looking for my entire life.

The problem is that she currently has a boyfriend. There is an event that's coming up in about a month, and I'm thinking of speaking to her privately and telling her how I'm in love with her and how gorgeous of a girl she is etc.

How many of you recommend this approach? I don't want to jeopardise the friendship I love having with her, but she's always on my mind and I truely feel that I am in love with her.

Any help is appreciated.

 

[mermer]

tell her...but only if u think that she might have the same feelings towards u..because if she doesnt then u'll be putting her in a shitty position.
i can tell u prob do have really strong feelings for her since u've stayed friends for two years even when u liked her and u too arent in a relationship together. shes lucky..but just make sure she might have the same feelings
good luck!

 

[mr_brightside]

Hi,

I'm really keen on this girl I am friends with, but am not sure what to do.
We've been friends for about 2 years, and we're both studying Year 12. She's an absolutely gorgeous girl with a great personality; couldn't be more perfect in my eyes. It's almost as if she's the girl I've been looking for my entire life.

The problem is that she currently has a boyfriend. There is an event that's coming up in about a month, and I'm thinking of speaking to her privately and telling her how I'm in love with her and how gorgeous of a girl she is etc.

How many of you recommend this approach? I don't want to jeopardise the friendship I love having with her, but she's always on my mind and I truely feel that I am in love with her.

Any help is appreciated.

see bold.

 

[Serius]

bad idea. If she felt the same about you, you would know it. Because she has a boyfriend she probably doesnt.
If you do go ahead with it and she says something about not wanting to ruin the friendship well... it became a shadow of a friendship when you first fell in love with her. If you are going to do anything, bide your time and wait for her to break up, then just be there and swoop in for the kill.

need i point out that you are on the friends ladder? almost anything you try wont work.

 

[breaking]

We've been friends for about 2 years

she currently has a boyfriend

I don't want to jeopardise the friendship

I truely feel that I am in love with her.

lolz.

 

[wagga]

Don't do it dude...look at it this way...if you go for an unattached chick, the worst that can happen is she will bar you. The worst case scenario in here is that you will lose a friendship probably permanentely, and feel the wrath of the angry boyfriend. There is a reason she is going out with him, because she likes him. If she doesn't she will break up, and there is your chance, but atm, you would be stupid.

 

[tallkid34]

You're friends with this girl and that's probably all you'll ever be to her, nothing more...

You've really got no chance (especially how she has a current bf) so its just best you distance yourself from her and move on.

 

[wisdomisrare]

I have a friend who has a lotta guys who like her and often she'll be able to tell without someone even telling her, but she is REALLY creeped out when one of her friends suddenly confesses that she is their one true love. My point is yeah talk to her but don't go around telling her that you're deeply in love with her, if you do it'll put her into a really awkward position. I mean she has a boyfriend.....
But in anycase i still think you should have a talk with her put be careful about what you say

 

[Affinity]

how about back to study
Telling her anything does not improve the situation , if you really want to do something, it has to me more subtle than that

 

[ari89]

Kill the boyfriend but make it look like an accident such as cutting the breaks on his car (make sure he dies tho!!!)...then you come along as the great close guy friend who she takes her sexual frustration out of until you become eurpoean lovers and backpack around the globe.

In all honesty, don't jeopardise your friendship with her because he might not be there tomorrow and she'll always need a friend. (Unless you're not really a close friend...then stay away you pervert!)

 

[redruM]

Tell her how you feel.

This way you'll get crushed and then grow some balls and become a man.

 

[AsyLum]

Tell her how you feel.

This way you'll get crushed and then grow some balls and become a man.

Hahaha!

"This'll put some hair on your chest"

 

[ari89]

Tell her how you feel.

This way you'll get crushed and then grow some balls and become a man.

:rofl:

 

[PrettyVacant]

Don't do it.

 

[Serius]

Tell her how you feel.

This way you'll get crushed and then grow some balls and become a man.

either that or he will dye his hair black, buy some thick rimmed glasses, listen to shit music and start cuting himself.

 

[redruM]

tell her when her and her bf split...
then she'll def go wit u... trust me

That is quite douche of you. So you want the bloke to hold it in for an unknown period of time...just waiting till they break up? After which he'd have to wait some more time.

YOU HAVE TO GET OVER IT.

either that or he will dye his hair black, buy some thick rimmed glasses, listen to shit music and start cuting himself.

(y)

 

[AsyLum]

Cuting!

 

[anonuser]

Thanks guys/girls for all your replies. I'm still thinking about it, but I still think I have to tell her. Love is something I cannot avoid, and even if she does have a boyfriend, I want her to know how I feel.

How should I approach it? Just take her aside and start with 'We've been friends for a while etc...'?

Thanks.

 

[tallkid34]

You've already lost, man...

Do as you will but if you do tell her, be prepared to deal with the possibility of losing her.

 

[beersandwich]

ur her intellectual whore, so as long as shes got a bf youll get nothing more.