Hating Single Life... (1 Viewer)

[Kegs]

I'd love to have the perfect relationship and I know what people mean when they say they hate being single because I'm not much of a fan either. But then I don't dwell on those things, I try to be happy with myself rather than needing someone to complete me.

Partners are good and all, but relying on someone to be your whole world is dangerous.

I agree it is dangerous. Needing someone and relying on them completely are different things. It is important to try not to rely on your partner to be everything for you. 2 of my friends at school where at opposite ends of relationships like this, one ended up breaking up with his gf and she became a cutter and was in a bad way for a while.

The other guy cut himself off from his friends one to many times and in the end we all left him, and when she broke up with him he was alone for a long time. I think he has moved back in with his parents now and last I heard, none of our old friends have anything to do with him.

So dependancy should be avoided at all costs, as should abandoning your friends. The dont like it. There is only so much they can take.

 

[AsyLum]

I agree it is dangerous. Needing someone and relying on them completely are different things. It is important to try not to rely on your partner to be everything for you. 2 of my friends at school where at opposite ends of relationships like this, one ended up breaking up with his gf and she became a cutter and was in a bad way for a while.

The other guy cut himself off from his friends one to many times and in the end we all left him, and when she broke up with him he was alone for a long time. I think he has moved back in with his parents now and last I heard, none of our old friends have anything to do with him.

So dependancy should be avoided at all costs, as should abandoning your friends. The dont like it. There is only so much they can take.

And also using the boyfriend, bad bad bad.

 

[Koray]

If you want some, go the club. Even though I am still not old enough... I would presume you can get someone at your standard or below it.

 

[ElGronko]

I'm lonely

I realised this today.

I wanted to call someone and have a chat, but I couldn't.

That's where I miss not having a girl...not having someone you can just call up whenever or see whenever you want and just talk.


So emo right now...

 

[melimoo]

*hugs raph*

i getcha. i'm often lonely. and sick of being single. and i want a friend to frolick with me

 

[ElGronko]

If you want some, go the club. Even though I am still not old enough... I would presume you can get someone at your standard or below it.

Too many 50 cent video clips for you...

 

[sophieadele]

i just came out of a 3 year relationship so i am pretty much celebrating being single!
maybe i just wanted a change...oh well i was way too young for a serious relationship anyway.
don't despair about being single, there are plenty of people out there and you will find that someone special all in good time. just take advantage of the single life, make the most of it before you are tied down and miss being single!

 

[nwatts]

It's no fun warming up so fast with strangers. Plus you'll never know if you're gonna get your head cracked by the girl's bf who went off momentarily to get a beer.

do you know this from experience?

because i think you are talking shit again.

 

[nwatts]

relationship material in anyone:

-sense of humour
-sexual prowess
-intelligence

and i have no idea what I'm talking about

hahah sure you don't

 

[ane_st]

My 3 best friends all got bfs at the same time... Haha...

Meh i kinda dont really mind being single...

 

[sja]

My 3 best friends all got bfs at the same time... Haha...

Meh i kinda dont really mind being single...

so fuck them all

 

[Riddles]

me. been single for 3 yrs, so over it now. apparently im not normal cos im attractive n dont hav a gf. any1 else think da same?

 

[ane_st]

so fuck them all

Yes cause thats my plan...





*cough*

 

[emmadilemma88]

i am also single and my friends are all coupled up but me, and yes at times i hate it because they all seem so happy and involved and it does seem unfair that no one cares about you the same way, but im loving single life anyway. you've got to do your own thing on your own terms, and the freedom of worrying about yourself and not that significant other is good at times.

plus, if you stop looking for a partner, they come along when you least expect it. so i say relax, chill out. i have and it feels awesome!

 

[ElGronko]

me. been single for 3 yrs, so over it now. apparently im not normal cos im attractive n dont hav a gf. any1 else think da same?

Yeah man, my mum thinks I'm handsome also.

 

[ElGronko]

Hahaha, you guys are fucked!


No, seriously, read back what you just typed.

 

[cl3nta]

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