Girls with guy friends (1 Viewer)

[thesnowman]

guy friends > girls

 

[PrettyVacant]

:\ Ladder theory?

 

[PrettyVacant]

Yeah, unless you;ve done something bad to him that you've forgotten (i.e. killed his parents and ran over his dog while singing "Barbie Girl" by Aqua)

Killed his parents, minced their flesh to cook chilli con carne and fed it to him unknowingly!

 

[PrettyVacant]

just as long as the guy trusts u enough not to do anything with them it should be cool...
always make it clear that the guys r strictly friends and r like brothers 2 u... always works lol

If you see it in his perspective:
If my boyfriend said, "Oh don't worry! This girl that I catch up with more than you is just like A SISTER to me! We're just FRIENDS! =D Yay, I'm going to watch a movie with her on Saturday! Wanna come along?" Or *something* like that, you'd be pretty pissed off.

 

[PrettyVacant]

Actually, if I did that to my boyfriend, I'd think about that thing I just typed and feel quite guilty for a while afterwards.

 

[thesnowman]

I wonder why...

I have more guy friends than I have girl friends. girls can be too bitchy/two faced sometimes =/

 

[PrettyVacant]

Everyone with more guy friends says that!

As for me, I have few friends and am rather antisocial =d

 

[thesnowman]

Everyone with more guy friends says that!

As for me, I have few friends and am rather antisocial =d

you mean you're actually quiet/not as loud irl?! :wave:

Everyone with more guy friends says that!

maybe bcoz it's true?...

 

[PrettyVacant]

I'm not quiet.
I just don't like people.
I mean, if I *absolutely must* socialise, I have the capacity to do so.
But any voluntary socialisation is kept to the minimum because frankly, some people are just boring.
Or I'm just really boring.

 

[PrettyVacant]

WOULD you do it though?

I'm so sure they don't bitch too much about guys though...

LIES.

=) Of course not.

 

[Captain Gh3y]

I'm not quiet.
I just don't like people.
I mean, if I *absolutely must* socialise, I have the capacity to do so.
But any voluntary socialisation is kept to the minimum because frankly, some people are just boring.
Or I'm just really boring.

Don't worry, in a couple of years socialising will reduce to
- go to club/pub
- look so good
- get drunk
- repeat

So it's okay to be boring or for others to be, no one will be able to tell anyway

*mumbles incoherently about things being more fun before everyone was 18*

 

[PrettyVacant]

Don't worry, in a couple of years socialising will reduce to
- go to club/pub
- look so good
- get drunk
- repeat

So it's okay to be boring or for others to be, no one will be able to tell anyway

*mumbles incoherently about things being more fun before everyone was 18*

=( Eww, that lifestyle sounds like a dead-end.

 

[PrettyVacant]

But you have like, the rest of your life to get drunk.

 

[PrettyVacant]

It'd be pretty fun actually. =D

For you.

 

[ari89]

If you had a girlfriend with lots of guy friends would it bother you that she still wanted you to meet and hang out with them?

Do you think that you would end up eventually overreacting about the ones she was particularly close to?

Only a completely insecure person who has no trust in their gf would feel that way...most of the time your true friends were there before the boyfriend was around...and in most cases they'd still be there after the bf is long gone.

 

[2vague]

Wow. I know what you mean! =( I mean, you'll reassure yourself and be like, 'Don't worry, you're his only gf' but then you'll get all possessive and nervous for no reason!

LOL.... im not the only one!!! and i thought it was just me!!!
the worse part is hes completely opposite and he wouldnt mind if the situation was vice versa... and that pressures me to be more like hiim and its soooo difficult... i try not to be and i dont want to be... it'll be easier for me too... and HE overreacts when i tell him, "i dont like someone else telling you that they miss you. "I'm the one who misses you". hes like, "omg youre so paranoid, youre the jealous type, why are u like that for?"
how the f shud i know?? thanx for making me feel better tho..
i'll stop bitching now.... =P lol... but dont u agree guys always contradict themselves??