"Friend Zone" (2 Viewers)

[Evilo]

dw u wouldn't understand.

 

[SiN3m]

try me

 

[Evilo]

ur hot, and u use ur body to attract men so u can set them up with ur fugly friends - i can see right through u

 

[scarybunny]

Be attractive.

When you meet someone they will immediately assess you as dateable or not, based on your appearance. Even if you pass the appearance test, further personality investigation may find you lacking in the boyfriend-qualities area.

There's nothing you can do.

 

[HalcyonSky]

Be attractive.

When you meet someone they will immediately assess you as dateable or not, based on your appearance. Even if you pass the appearance test, further personality investigation may find you lacking in the boyfriend-qualities area.

There's nothing you can do.

as much as people will deny it, this is the simple truth. If you're blatantly ugly, the only thing u can do is start working out and adjust ur style.

and also, dont be a pussy. This point has already been established, but it is vital. Its not about acting like a different person, its just being urself while resisting the urge to be excessively (and undeservingly) nice. make her earn it

 

[uhawww]

Be attractive.

When you meet someone they will immediately assess you as dateable or not, based on your appearance. Even if you pass the appearance test, further personality investigation may find you lacking in the boyfriend-qualities area.

There's nothing you can do.

So you're saying you have to be hot to get a girlfriend?


Bullshit. I see ugly cunts with hot girlfriends all the time.



Well I do agree it is in fact like this the majority of the time, but I don't think you should give up all hope if you're ugly.

edit: I possibly misinterpreted your comment

 

[Evilo]

So you're saying you have to be hot to get a girlfriend?


Bullshit. I see ugly cunts with hot girlfriends all the time.



Well I do agree it is in fact like this the majority of the time, but I don't think you should give up all hope if you're ugly.

dude, initial attraction is done through the 2 senses - eyes (visual attraction) and smell.

 

[scarybunny]

Maybe I should have said "be attractive to the girl".

Because not everyone has the same ideas, some people have weird standards.

The point is that if she doesn't find you physically attractive, you do not have a chance.

 

[uhawww]

Yeah I should think there's a difference between attraction and being horrendously ugly. Hence my edit.

 

[Graney]

The idea is to move on so your not trying to... waste money on her etc when shes clearly not interested.

You spend money to get girls to like you? olol.

 

[HalcyonSky]

There must be a personality component in physical attractiveness too.

Some girls on here, judging purely by their internets personality, i envisage as being hot while others just average.

 

[Evilo]

You spend money to get girls to like you? olol.

Do you just rape them?

 

[Captain Gh3y]

Some girls on here, judging purely by their internets personality, i envisage as being hot while others just average.

Attractive people get treated better (on average) from when they're infants so that would help shape their personality to what we now see as a hot person

On the down side people assume they're dumb

 

[scarybunny]

There must be a personality component in physical attractiveness too.

Some girls on here, judging purely by their internets personality, i envisage as being hot while others just average.

This is true also. It's like someone can be goodlooking, but if they're a complete asshole then they're suddenly completely unattractive.

Oooh it's all a rich tapestry, and you can't just say "this makes a friend" or "this makes a dateable person".

 

[Captain Gh3y]

You have a hot internets personality

 

[Graney]

nah

 

[scarybunny]

You have a hot internets personality

Rawr.

Of course the internet personality is a new, interesting addition to the attraction game. I don't know where it fits in exactly, whether or not it can be overridden by actual appearance or IRL personality. Probably.

 

[HalcyonSky]

i dont think it applies much in person, but it doesnt hurt

 

[HalcyonSky]

You have a hot internets personality

lol sif. she's probably in my bottom 3

 

[scarybunny]

lol sif. she's probably in my bottom 3

Haha ouch.