dream cheating (1 Viewer)

[Ennaybur]

how would you feel if you (or your partner) had dreams about other men/women?
- in a sexual/intimate way?

do you think it somehow represents unfaithfulness? or is it perfectly normal etc?


*not related to me or my rape dream*

 

[Jaydels]

I think it's probably normal. I doubt there's anything to worry about as long as it stays as only dreams. Or maybe if it happened all the time, but if it's just a one off thing i wouldn't worry.

 

[flipsyde]

I agree with Jay, I wouldnt worry about it. A one off is probably normal, and liek meh whatever its JUST a dream. But yeah all the time and Id begin to worry. otherwise dont take it to heart.

 

[kazan]

not something to worry about

 

[maskd]

You can't really control your dreams, so I wouldn't care.

 

[Loz#1]

this reminds of the episode of the simpsons where willy tries to kill the children in their dreams and bart, lisa & maggie have to stop it. baaaaasically, he tells me when he has dreams like that and we all have a big laugh because if i were to judge him for it, it would be highly hypocritical since i've dream cheated more times than i can remember.

 

[Shell]

My best friend wont speak to her boyfriend for days if she has a dream where he cheated on her. what an idiot.

i dont think those kind of dreams mean anything bad.

 

[Serius]

how would you feel if you (or your partner) had dreams about other men/women?
- in a sexual/intimate way?

do you think it somehow represents unfaithfulness? or is it perfectly normal etc?


*not related to me or my rape dream*

It means nothing. Unless its happening every night[ in which case you are obsessed with sex] its just a random occurance.

4th week, 1st year psych.

 

[Ennaybur]

lol dw its not abuot me so im not worried

 

[Kegs]

I've had a few dreams about cheating on my boyfriend with an ex. I always felt a little guilty when I woke up, but its not like I actually did anything wrong. I never mentioned it to my boy though, it wouldnt do any good. You can't control your dreams so they're not you're fault. Probably best not to tell your bf/gf about cheating dreams though.

I think it is the opposite. You should tell them if you have a dream or something. It is not a big deal, but if they foind out later somehow, they can think it is a big deal cause you hid. My gf and I are quite open and will discuss pretty much anything including other people we find attractive. I think that sharing as much as you can can only make your relationship stronger, esp when it comes to sex issues and thoughts. Of course it would be a different story if I told her I want to sleep with another girl, but for some reason she would have no problem with me sleeping with a guy. Go figure.

 

[mr_brightside]

Can't control your dreams, if its not regular, dont worry.

 

[ur_inner_child]

Hahaha that's hilarious that I stumbled onto this thread.

This morning when my boyfriend woke me, the first thing I said was "YEESSSS! I madeout with John Mayer in my dream!"

Nothing to be ashamed of, you can't control it. Not even worth mentioning as some sort of concern :/

 

[miaowsha]

Some of you people are nuts.

As if care. Seriously. It's just a dream.

 

[Oddy Nocki]

AHAHAHAHAHAHA That's so dumb it hurts.

 

[latvia]

it's ok.
sometimes you sex-dream of someone you don't even know or feel for irl.

 

[Cykologi_gal]

Hmmm...I used to be worried - My first ex dreamed that Jennifer Aniston wanted him to f*** her...I go quite jealous, but then, I was only 14, 15?

Nowadays, I try not to worry. I did actually have a dream abt me cheating, just several nights ago, sometimes it's just a reflection of our fears, worries, etc...but sex dreams, even dreams where you just cuddle, with your crushes, who'll never be together with you, are always good lol - they've been a source of poems and song lyrics for me

 

[puglover]

Hahaha that's hilarious that I stumbled onto this thread.

This morning when my boyfriend woke me, the first thing I said was "YEESSSS! I madeout with John Mayer in my dream!"

Nothing to be ashamed of, you can't control it. Not even worth mentioning as some sort of concern :/

John Mayer is awesome
Hey is that him in your sig?
Oh and by the way he is comin to Melbourne!
But I have no money for tickets =[.
i spent my money on Red Hot Chilli Pepper and local band tickets
In fact haha listening to John Mayer, room for squares now