PrettyVacant said:
So how do you show you care?
Show guys you care by:
*Showing respect.
*Don't tell us how to dress.
*Don't call us cutie/sweetie all the time. We have names, use them.
*Introduce us to your friends, it'll demonstrate that we're important to you.
*Never, ever, relate us to family members. If we remind you of your bro/dad/cousin etc keep it to yourself.
*Be honest with us. Guys can be as deceptive as women, so be careful with this one.
*Don't expect expensive presents, we're guys, therefore, we're broke.
*Don't use subtle hints about how you feel or what you want. If you tell us, we know you actually want something done, and thus we can also show we care.
*If he's your boyfriend, tell him you love him, or wear something that demonstrates it (trust us, dolling yourself up is bad, in your pjs or in lace is good, nothing is even better).
In return, he should show he cares by:
*Never pressuring you into anything sexual. If anything, if he suggests, and you say no, he shouldn't mention it again until you want him to.
*Remembering chivalry is not dead (expect doors open).
*Never tell you how much you remind him of a family member.
*He should introduce you to his mates. By the way, the easiest way to avoid conflict with his mates is to mention you have sexy single friends. Mates are always jealous, but when you drop said hint, they'll be nice to you to get introductions to the hot friends.
*He should always offer his shoulder to lean on.
*He should be honest with you.
*Give you presents from the heart. These can be as simple as three simple words.
*And finally, if he cares for you he will argue with you from time to time, as he has his own ideas about things and knows that simply agreeing with you to avoid an argument is a form of lying.
