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Ur fecken self centred and manipulative, u make him feel like sh*t and yet ur the 1 complaining, wtf is wrong with u, u treat him like a dog, u expect him 2 say how much he luvs u and sh*t even though ur being a bitch. If u think u really really like him then fecken tell him u manipulative slut, damn wtf is wrong with u.swe3t_munchkins said:
Serius
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what i hate:
this belongs in the what do u find offensive thread, because i hate it when women give these really confusing messages to men, and act like what they wanted was so obvious, even tho they gave about 11 different conflicting messages
Problem:
You tell him you dont love him [ well thats the message he got] so either the relationship is going downhill because
what he thinks:
1. he doesnt want to be in a relationship where he feels like he is getting played [ not saying its the case, just saying if i was in his situation and u didnt communicate this stuff to me what conclusions i would draw]
2. or he is cutting al lthe crap and not saying it until you learn to love him back
Whats going on in his confused little mind:
and then suddenly u ask him why he doesnt tell u u love him anymore? wow confusing messages for the poor guy, firstly you tell him u dont love him and to basically stop s aying it, then u tell him to say i love you...
no wonder he avoids the question by saying he is watching cartoons haha
solution:
communicate with the guy, subtle hints obviously arent your thing and they arent working to your benefit so state to him bluntly whats going on, and hope it makes the relationship stronger
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this belongs in the what do u find offensive thread, because i hate it when women give these really confusing messages to men, and act like what they wanted was so obvious, even tho they gave about 11 different conflicting messages
Problem:
You tell him you dont love him [ well thats the message he got] so either the relationship is going downhill because
what he thinks:
1. he doesnt want to be in a relationship where he feels like he is getting played [ not saying its the case, just saying if i was in his situation and u didnt communicate this stuff to me what conclusions i would draw]
2. or he is cutting al lthe crap and not saying it until you learn to love him back
Whats going on in his confused little mind:
and then suddenly u ask him why he doesnt tell u u love him anymore? wow confusing messages for the poor guy, firstly you tell him u dont love him and to basically stop s aying it, then u tell him to say i love you...
no wonder he avoids the question by saying he is watching cartoons haha
solution:
communicate with the guy, subtle hints obviously arent your thing and they arent working to your benefit so state to him bluntly whats going on, and hope it makes the relationship stronger
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swe3t_munchkins
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Thankz global, just yeah ive never been in this situation and i thought something was serious wrong i know i hurt his feelings and i respect him for saying it cause i know where i stand, anyway to the little s**t who called me a slut, do u even know the meaning of it....! Cause that just out of context mate.....! anyway, yeah i know ive confused the situation i think im just worrying over nothing, probabley just stressing and digging myself into a bigger hole especially with my half yearlies next week, thanks for your help and critism good job...!
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ditto
n girl...dont fuck about with subtle hints...guys neva get them straight away, adds 2 confusion
if u only like him, ur playing with him, if u love him stay...if neither, fuck off n let him get u out of his system
one thing i agree with Serius is what he sed, and it leads to girls thinking they're always the 'victims' as such in these situations....fuckin grow up n grow a brain and a heart...think of others, guys wont take crap from girls (as in messing with them) lightly...
its plain common sense....u (and all girls) should be honest and say wot u think, but also accept wot guys think and not expect guys 2 care....which is anutha contradicting thing, girls want guys 2 care but then dont want them 2 react 2 this sort of stuff...
confuzzling
n girl...dont fuck about with subtle hints...guys neva get them straight away, adds 2 confusion
if u only like him, ur playing with him, if u love him stay...if neither, fuck off n let him get u out of his system
one thing i agree with Serius is what he sed, and it leads to girls thinking they're always the 'victims' as such in these situations....fuckin grow up n grow a brain and a heart...think of others, guys wont take crap from girls (as in messing with them) lightly...
its plain common sense....u (and all girls) should be honest and say wot u think, but also accept wot guys think and not expect guys 2 care....which is anutha contradicting thing, girls want guys 2 care but then dont want them 2 react 2 this sort of stuff...
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ppl like u are termed as sluts, ur doing sluttish acts without even knowing it. Anywayz don't brink ur half-yearlies into it, i've heard it 2 many timesswe3t_munchkins said:
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yes confusing..... i say people just just get the wrong signals from their partners and then they act on them, thats why people get played or think they are getting played...!
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Juz tell him how much u luv him and how much ur craving his fat cock god damn it!!!swe3t_munchkins said:
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ok ill remember that, no subtle hints hehehehe
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Beckiki_S
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I think it's fairly obvious that he doesnt want to feel like a loser (like somehow you're worth all this love because youre so amazing but he's not) and you unintentionally bruised his ego.
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How do u know swe3t_munchkins is amazing?...in fact she's the 1 that's being the player, she said she really likes him but wouldn't actually tell him so, she actually gets pissed because he has stopped telling her that he luvs her, wtf is wrong with her?...how fecken self centred can a bitch get?...why the feck does everything have 2 satisfy her?...anywayz i'm pretty sure as i've mentioned b4, she's juz a manipulative slut.Beckiki_S said:
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um i was referring to what he might be thinking.
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He's obviously not going to say it again, just to hear you NOT reciprocate his feelings.swe3t_munchkins said:
He'll probably start to distance himself from you, out of frustration, but if you can genuinely say that you love him... then he might return to his "mushy" old self.
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being a player means getting with multiple people, not being slightly annoyed/confused when your guy doesnt tell you he loves you anymore! get over it heroHerO said:How do u know swe3t_munchkins is amazing?...in fact she's the 1 that's being the player, she said she really likes him but wouldn't actually tell him so, she actually gets pissed because he has stopped telling her that he luvs her, wtf is wrong with her?...how fecken self centred can a bitch get?...why the feck does everything have 2 satisfy her?...anywayz i'm pretty sure as i've mentioned b4, she's juz a manipulative slut.