best friend issue (2 Viewers)

[ambi89]

ok i have this friend(1) who hates my other friend(2) and will not hang out wit me or go clubbing if my other friend comes wit us friend 1 says i can only be her friend and i cant be friend2 friend i have to choses there both very good friends of mine thats why i need help wit what to do

 

[Bainesy]

Friends dont give friends ultimatums about their friendship

so tell friend 1 to fuck off. choose friend 2.

 

[inter108]

Give both a anal probe see if they agree to disagree with that.

 

[boris]

whos troll are you?

 

[*TRUE*]

ok i have this friend(1) who hates my other friend(2) and will not hang out wit me or go clubbing if my other friend comes wit us friend 1 says i can only be her friend and i cant be friend2 friend i have to choses there both very good friends of mine thats why i need help wit what to do

Number one : Do not be duplicitous. Be honest and loyal to both friends , don't bag one out to make the other feel more important , or to facilitate your own power plays.
Number two: Neither of your friends has any right whatsoever to dictate who else you are in relationships with. You should say this , perhaps in a softer more gentle way depending on the temperament of the girl.
Number three : Do what you think is right , regardless of what either or both of these girls do. You're being emotionally manipulated , and it is a dangerous path to allow yourself to be led down.

 

[Caitlin63]

One thing I've learned in life is that the people who won't hang around you based on who your other friends are, are not worth it. If they don't like you enough when they don't get exactly their own way well chances are.... they don't really like you that much. I had a similar situation this year and this is me talking from experience. Don't tell friend 1 to piss off.... but if her behaviour continues she will probably tell you to piss off or start ignoring you and just remember though this might hurt you will be better off without her.

 

[AsyLum]

ok i have this friend(1) who hates my other friend(2) and will not hang out wit me or go clubbing if my other friend comes wit us friend 1 says i can only be her friend and i cant be friend2 friend i have to choses there both very good friends of mine thats why i need help wit what to do

Slit both their throats.

 

[studentcheese]

Same thing happening with me. I can't go out with one friend without upsetting another. What I do is to make sure one friend doesn't know I'm on an outing with another. Keep both as friends.

 

[ambi89]

whos troll are you?

quit calling me that and leave me alone

 

[boris]

No. There is no way you are a real person. I refuse to believe that in this day and age anyone can be as stupid as you.

 

[cannibal.horse]

ok i have this friend(1) who hates my other friend(2) and will not hang out wit me or go clubbing if my other friend comes wit us friend 1 says i can only be her friend and i cant be friend2 friend i have to choses there both very good friends of mine thats why i need help wit what to do

I take delight in that this troll knows the Hunter region.

Where abouts in Kurri do you go 'clubbing'?

 

[ambi89]

I take delight in that this troll knows the Hunter region.

Where abouts in Kurri do you go 'clubbing'?

i dont go in kurri i go to newy

 

[cannibal.horse]

i dont go in kurri i go to newy

I thought they cut the trainline to stop you lot doing that.

 

[tigerian]

No. There is no way you are a real person. I refuse to believe that in this day and age anyone can be as stupid as you.

The young lady asked you a genuine question

Please answer sensibly or not at all

Moderators I think Ambi89 might need your intervention please do not allow these people to speak like this to someone who genuinely needs advice
it is not our right to question her need she needs support and she needs it now

I hope you moderators can intervene

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

The young lady asked you a genuine question

Please answer sensibly or not at all

Moderators I think Ambi89 might need your intervention please do not allow these people to speak like this to someone who genuinely needs advice
it is not our right to question her need she needs support and she needs it now

I hope you moderators can intervene

finish with that modcock in your mouth?
make your mind up, spit or swallow.

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

not quite I just need to send this reply to a moderator to deal with as they see fit
now im finished

im terrified, really.
DONT TELL ON ME PLEASE
PLEASE DONT

Jesus.

 

[wixxy2348]

Hahahahaha
Clubbing in Kurri, Jesus.
CLubbing in Newy, almost as lolz

 

[Charity F]

ok i have this friend(1) who hates my other friend(2) and will not hang out wit me or go clubbing if my other friend comes wit us friend 1 says i can only be her friend and i cant be friend2 friend i have to choses there both very good friends of mine thats why i need help wit what to do

take note of the poll

edit; i.e. the majority

 

[wixxy2348]

too much sarcasm too late already done

seeing I know one of the site founders I know something will be done

wow.. scary.. O.O

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

too much sarcasm too late already done

seeing I know one of the site founders I know something will be done

Your connections terrify me. I would be unable to live without BOS, even briefly.

Im even considering suicide just at the thought of going with out.
Srsly.
Razors are lined up like cocaine for snorting. Nooses tied to perfection. Pistol loaded.
LOOK WHAT YOUVE DONE

Actually, fuck it, I might just go shoot up my school or something equally gun related. Yeah. Defffs.