Attn: BoS - Gargantuan GF Crisis (1 Viewer)

[AsyLum]

k.

moar sad is the fact that you are in uni, and you reset you're hsc: status to 2011, given - to stop people on the forum bagging you out for being a fag with no life posting on a forum that does not pertain to them. and yes there is a uni section on this site, but the fact you reset it back to 2011 shows you're concerned people will flame you for being in uni. so on that note, halyconsky (nerdy fgt), /you.

you continually reinforcing that you think i havent had sex only goes to promote the fact that you are concerned for yourself (and dont bother trying to defend yourself in another post,) for the same reason you still want to be thought of as a student who is still in school only so he can pass judgement on an online forum, it is clear that you my friend have not had any sex and will not for the unforseeable future.

and calling me guy does not enforce some authority or cool attitude. youre just a faggot with an anime name and avatar.
that's sad.
esp if you're in uni.

I think we've solved why you're so worried about your girlfriend!

 

[AsyLum]

hey, a before you start bagging out peeps for being past hsc... WHY ARE YOU ON HERE? for the goss/ranting about problems/etc? coz you're certainly not getting any academic merits from this.

He's here because his girlfriend is going down on her ex, while he's raging :burn:

 

[HalcyonSky]

k.

moar sad is the fact that you are in uni, and you reset you're hsc: status to 2011, given - to stop people on the forum bagging you out for being a fag with no life posting on a forum that does not pertain to them. and yes there is a uni section on this site, but the fact you reset it back to 2011 shows you're concerned people will flame you for being in uni. so on that note, halyconsky (nerdy fgt), /you.

you continually reinforcing that you think i havent had sex only goes to promote the fact that you are concerned for yourself (and dont bother trying to defend yourself in another post,) for the same reason you still want to be thought of as a student who is still in school only so he can pass judgement on an online forum, it is clear that you my friend have not had any sex and will not for the unforseeable future.

and calling me guy does not enforce some authority or cool attitude. youre just a faggot with an anime name and avatar.
that's sad.
esp if you're in uni.

..yeah man thats exactly the reason why i set my hsc status to 2011

you're a total fucktard, im not surprised this girl is blowing her ex

 

[AsyLum]

so really he's in no position to bag out anyone else

No but his girlfriend gets into some pretty great positions from what I hear

 

[boris]

k.

moar sad is the fact that you are in uni, and you reset you're hsc: status to 2011, given - to stop people on the forum bagging you out for being a fag with no life posting on a forum that does not pertain to them. and yes there is a uni section on this site, but the fact you reset it back to 2011 shows you're concerned people will flame you for being in uni. so on that note, halyconsky (nerdy fgt), /you.

you continually reinforcing that you think i havent had sex only goes to promote the fact that you are concerned for yourself (and dont bother trying to defend yourself in another post,) for the same reason you still want to be thought of as a student who is still in school only so he can pass judgement on an online forum, it is clear that you my friend have not had any sex and will not for the unforseeable future.

and calling me guy does not enforce some authority or cool attitude. youre just a faggot with an anime name and avatar.
that's sad.
esp if you're in uni.

You write using lots of internet slang etc and still judge others as being nerds?


Lol and oh yeah our HSC is set to 2011 cos we are scared fags will bag us out.

 

[*TRUE*]

To cut an epic thread short: I am 18, my girlfriend is about 2 years older than me. This story involves 3 main characters: Myself, my Girlfriend (edit: a fucken 11/10 girl physically, intellectually etc), and my Girlfriend's Ex-Boyfriend. We have been together for almost a year now, we are intimate (yes, we have teh sehcks), we spend time over each others' house (she has her own place), and i feel like because of one problem ... we may come to an end sooner than we both might think. Of course i don't want us to break up over this ... problem, which is why i'm posting for advice. (and this is not me trolling, i promise)

Before i came along, my girlfriend was with another guy of her own age, and was with him since she was 16 to when she was 19. They were close, went out clubbing and pill popping, got high together, (all the fun stuff you do when you're young) and thus obviously have awesome memories with each other (since they were high when doing most of it). She's done with that stuff now, and wouldn't do that stuff with me, if i wanted her to. She has 'matured'. Although this is just one aspect of the relationship they had. They were not some druggy-couple - just to clear that up. My point is, they have shared something unique together, and were in a solid relationship for around 3 years, as well as them being there first real relationship with one another. They broke up eventually, she broke up with him for some petty reasons like "he really knew how to push my buttons and piss me off". They both moved on. The Ex is in a relationship with someone else, and i am going out with my gf.

The 'ex' (as i shall now refer to him) and my gf remain friends. And at this, i emphasise they still do ALOT of things together. My gf says of course they are close friends and so i should never be worried or jealous because "since we broke up, we eventually were able to go back to being 'friends' like we used to before going out...and it's great!" I at first believed her 100%. That they are friends and nothing more. But this perspective has shifted gradually, and now i find myself wondering if this is genuinely the case with my girlfriend and her ex.

Since they remain friends, this apparently allows certain actions to take place - which are supposed to not cause me worry, grief or jealousy - since they are "just friends". I find myself continually and increasingly questioning this now though due to several certain things.

1) The ex picks her up from the station every morning and drives her to work (they both 'work' in the same suburb which is around an hour drive so it "saves me [gf] on petrol", not having to drive there herself). And when i say every morning, i mean every morning. Like clockwork. Up @ 5am, dressed and ready by 6am and off to be picked up by him at 6:30am to drive with him to work (no, they don't work at the same place, just same suburb). The ex when finished work @ 6:30pm picks her up from work and drives her home. Some days she catches the train back, but it is usually the case he drives her back. So, accumulatively, they do spend a helluva lot of time together.

2) At her own place, she has pictures of her friends and herself on the wall in the lounge room, and since her ex was initially her Friend --> then the boyfriend --> then the ex --> then back to being the 'Friend', he is in alot of the pictures with her. Some of them are pictures of just her and the ex, some taken from when they were dating and some from when they were friends, but mainly from the time when they were dating. Some pictures are of other friends and the ex and her. I understood this as simply being a reminder of "good memories" or whatever it was, and i was perfectly happy with them being up in her place. For the record, the ex and a few other friends came over her place and rummaged through her photos and selected these photos and put them on the wall themselves. Moreover, some of these photos (and this is mainly what i'm concerned about) are of semi-initimate shots of my gf and her ex when they were obviously going out. For example, one is a shot of his neck displaying a hicky that she gave him. Appropriate? Something i should not be 'jealous' over that this photo was recently put up on her wall by the ex? I'm actually not sure, and this is where i need advice. Is this normal? Is this nothing to be worried about?

Another example: at least 5 of the photos are of just my gf and her ex together (arms over each other etc) ... in fact, now that i think, most of them are her and him together from when they were dating. There are a couple of the other friends, but mainly just of the gf and ex. Now whilst i concede this was 'in the past' and i am certainly not upset that she went out with this guy. This happened before my time. Though what i'm not sure about is why these particular shots of them (and their past relationship) must be up and on display in her house - despite them being broken up now. Why should these photos be up, what purpose do they serve? I know she's not really 'parading' them in front of me, but they are there. And i don't know why.

3) The ex still sees my gf alot. As "friends", sure, but he still sees her alot. Almost as much as me, and yet it feels as if, in a way, that they are still 'dating'. I say this because they do, together, many of the things that couples do - yet of course they do this "as friends".

4) He calls her alot. He is constantly calling and messaging for this, for that. For advice on this, about her, about what time to pick her up in the morning (of course the time is always the same every single morning) yet he still calls to ask what time should he pick her up. It appears to be an excuse to speak to her. If i have painted an image of him as a stalker, it is definitely not that. It is more of a situation where in his head, at least it appears this way to me, that he still does many of the things that she and him did when they were in a relationship which they still do after being broken up for more than a year. At least half the messages in her phone are from me, then the other half are from the ex.

5) He brings her over food despite her being abundantly self-sufficient. They still go out for dinner - not with other friends, just the 2 of them (used to be Tuesdays and Thursdays but since myself and herself have been together for longer, its not AS often.)

6) He takes her shopping. Up until i realised he did, then i started going with her instead. She reckons she needs help when shopping and can't do it by herself, which is fair enough.

7) To some work functions, she takes him. She says it's cos he's older (in terms of looks and age) and i would look too young to take with her. Basically she takes him as the date to the function. This is something i do not understand. You could go by yourself, but then i understand it is a way of stopping other people/men at her work thinking they can take advantage of her and think she is single. Thus it probably stops others trying to put the moves on her. Which is also fair enough.


The 2 are just very inseparable. And i find myself wondering if i should bother bringing this up with my gf. I feel if i say anything like "i find this or that a little inappropriate" (like the pictures of them on the wall) she will get angry and say "we're just friends, there's nothing to be jealous over" etc etc and it will no doubt just cause strife. They are so close that i know if i find a problem with it, i'll be accused of being overly-jealous about their friendship and I will be the one in shit.

Should i be saying anything? Is this just normal, universal stuff that happens with people and their ex's?

I suppose that i feel he is just too prevalent a part in her life. But maybe this is to be expected...

This opinion isn't going to be popular , but : The relationship between your girlfriend and her ex is entirely inappropriate.
I wonder how she would feel , were the tables turned, were you to become as close as she is with her ex- to a woman you had a history with.
It sounds to me that she is manipulative , dishonest and wants the best of both worlds. (yours , and her ex) I fear you may be a pawn that her feline mind believes is helping her to gain back her ex. Despite what she says , she has an agenda - it may not be what i have suggested...but there IS an agenda. Watch out buddy

 

[Josip Broz Tito]

You might not want to hear it but...
your gf and the ex are going at it. you are your gf's reserve. the reason that she takes him to the work functions is because she finds him more attractive and feels that people will approve of him more...ashamed at the age gap? harsh as it may seem, you're the fill in guy. while youre on here worrying, your 11/10 girlfriend is enjoying the luxury of having two guys, one who she truly likes and one who makes her feel better because he is at her every beck and call.

 

[zeam]

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[Josip Broz Tito]

i more attractive than anyone hahahaha

 

[jumb]

This guy's posts make me think their relationship would be a lot like this: http://xkcd.com/386/

 

[tommykins]

haha seriously - after reading your replies to halcon and boris - i can see why she'd go for the ex.

you're very insecure, defensive and totally obnoxious. you take things too seriously, and i bet you're a sucker for this 11/10 chick.

newflash - get out before she does.

 

[SpoonSamba]

haha reading the title of the thread i thought itd be about a guy having a really fat gf


but no....

 

[risole91]

To cut an epic thread short:

One of the most misleading statements ever.

 

[shinji]

Oi, asylum, i hear you're bringing up your children on this site too, rumour has it with katie.



- Fag, you finished hsc in 2003, what on earth are you still doing on this site. intrawebzgeekisyou

apparently you're 23. fuck that's old. fuck that's even sadder to still be on an internet forum. gonna do something with your life aside from maintain your e-status?

- Fag, you finished hsc in 2008, what on earth are you still doing on this site. intrawebzgeekisyou

apparently you're 18. fuck that's old. fuck that's even sadder to still be on an internet forum. gonna do something with your life aside from maintain your e-status?


Same is said to you.

 

[abbeyroad]

guess what internet warrior, your gf is blowing her ex in his car every morning.

 

[Serius]

her behaviour is inappropriate. She obviously has difficulty dealing with the fact they arent together anymore and cant let him go[or he cant let her go] driving together...thats fine. Dinner together every week? that crosses the line. photos of him up everywhere from when they were dating? crosses the line.

I mean, say i walked into her room right? would i think she has a boyfriend? yes. Would i think it is you? no, i would assume its him.

Calling every day? yeah not really cool, especially if this is cutting into your together time. Be understanding that they are friends, but YOU should be the best friend and be spending the most time with her and calling her all the time when she isnt there, not him.

Work functions...not really cool. Once off, sure if she NEEDS a date and you are busy or some shit, but you should be the first choice for these things....couples do this sort of thing together and YOU should be there with her not him. Her workmates probably think HE is her boyfriend judging by how she acts and that is deceitful and unfair to you.


Is she cheating on you? probably not, it just seems like a friends thing...but the thing is, in order for a relationship to work it needs to be a partnership i.e YOU and HER as a team. If she spends so much time with another guy she is sabotaging the emotional bond you should be forming. Emotional cheating if you will.

Her behaviour would be perfectly fine if she was single and they were best friends and that, but now you are together her priorities should be with you and not him. Good luck in getting her to show reason it probably wont happen.

 

[Dan2008]

Serious advice - If you think this is too much ex-time, tell her, and sort it out. If you think it's an issue, make a stand (dont go apeshit) but lay your cards out on the table man

Less serious advice - Dont attack people here, its not nice :apig: (and im not calling u a pig, just liked the smile )

 

[Bainesy]

heres what you do.

you go out with the other guy as a friend, to a sports match or movie or whatever. then you get some food and when you feel like you are getting along you drop the line "I think she is pregnant, found a positive preg test in bathroom yesti" then you follow up with "i dont understand. we are really careful and only do it in between her periods"

now if the guy has slept with your gf then he might freak out and leave the whole scene involving your gf cause he might think he is the father. if he doesnt react it means what other people have said. you might just be a terribly insecure fuck that needs to get over it

 

[kevinx2]

heres what you do.

you go out with the other guy as a friend, to a sports match or movie or whatever. then you get some food and when you feel like you are getting along you drop the line "I think she is pregnant, found a positive preg test in bathroom yesti" then you follow up with "i dont understand. we are really careful and only do it in between her periods"

now if the guy has slept with your gf then he might freak out and leave the whole scene involving your gf cause he might think he is the father. if he doesnt react it means what other people have said. you might just be a terribly insecure fuck that needs to get over it

I like.

 

[Mumma]

haha reading the title of the thread i thought itd be about a guy having a really fat gf


but no....

same. i kept reading, waiting for the bit where she devours a giant elephant.