answers to a few questions. (1 Viewer)

[scaredytiger]

interracial couples/popularity/social groups etc.
generally, a moderately intelligent person of either gender will assess every person individually. sure. they may be predominantly attracted to brunettes, or green eyes, or whatever else, but there are generally exceptions.

also, everyones taste is different. they are not bound by characteristics of social/racial groups they may be a part of.

people from cultures which traditionally oppose each other may however find some difficulties regarding family and such.

essentially, DONT BLAME YOUR SOCIAL/ETHNIC IDENTITY FOR RELATIONSHIPS OR LACK THEREOF.



aesthetics
yeah, theyre important. a healthy relationship requires physical attraction.
this is not achieved through the triple application of makeup. ffs, if you dont know how to use make up to best play up your features, ASK A PROFESSIONAL.

wear clothes that suit your body.
who gives a fuck if it looked good on the model if it doesnt look good on you?

drink lots of water, exercise regularly and eat decent food. it works wonders for your skin and energy levels. and usually helps you towards a body shape you prefer.




lack of confidence
so you like someone. you just cant tell them?

are they nice?
are they level headed?
are they a decent human being?

if they arent, why do you like them? if they are, surely they arent going to humiliate you or flip out and never speak to you again.

so what, you might have a little bit of awkwardness for a week or so at the most. worst case scenario, and you know where you stand.

YOU DONT LOSE ANYTHING. fancy that.

just tell them already.






i might add to this later. eh, ranting is fun.

 

[lolcal]

cheers for your profound insights

 

[dieburndie]

lack of confidence
so you like someone. you just cant tell them?

are they nice?
are they level headed?
are they a decent human being?

if they arent, why do you like them? if they are, surely they arent going to humiliate you or flip out and never speak to you again.

so what, you might have a little bit of awkwardness for a week or so at the most. worst case scenario, and you know where you stand.

YOU DONT LOSE ANYTHING. fancy that.

just tell them already.

Should add to this that you should make the effort to converse with them and establish some sort of connection before you tell them.
Even a nice level headed decent person may flip out when confronted by a stranger (or at the very least reject you outright)
Some people with no confidence struggle with this concept.

 

[lyounamu]

interracial couples/popularity/social groups etc.
generally, an moderately intelligent person of either gender will assess every person individually. sure. they may be predominantly attracted to brunettes, or green eyes, or whatever else, but there are generally exceptions.

also, everyones taste is different. they are not bound by characteristics of social/racial groups they may be a part of.

people from cultures which traditionally oppose each other may however find some difficulties regarding family and such.

essentially, DONT BLAME YOUR SOCIAL/ETHNIC IDENTITY FOR RELATIONSHIPS OR LACK THEREOF.



aesthetics
yeah, theyre important. a healthy relationship requires physical attraction.
this is not achieved through the triple application of makeup. ffs, if you dont know how to use make up to best play up your features, ASK A PROFESSIONAL.

wear clothes that suit your body.
who gives a fuck if it looked good on the model if it doesnt look good on you?

drink lots of water, exercise regularly and eat decent food. it works wonders for your skin and energy levels. and usually helps you towards a body shape you prefer.




lack of confidence
so you like someone. you just cant tell them?

are they nice?
are they level headed?
are they a decent human being?

if they arent, why do you like them? if they are, surely they arent going to humiliate you or flip out and never speak to you again.

so what, you might have a little bit of awkwardness for a week or so at the most. worst case scenario, and you know where you stand.

YOU DONT LOSE ANYTHING. fancy that.

just tell them already.






i might add to this later. eh, ranting is fun.

Um...I will take note of the ones on interracial relationship and lack of confidence. Very insightful rants....um

 

[scaredytiger]

Should add to this that you should make the effort to converse with them and establish some sort of connection before you tell them.
Even a nice level headed decent person may flip out when confronted by a stranger (or at the very least reject you outright)
Some people with no confidence struggle with this concept.

forgot to mention that.
but yeah.

 

[Riet]

The interacial one is wrong though.

 

[scaredytiger]

The interacial one is wrong though.

hmm?

 

[dieburndie]

Another useful point:
girls are attracted to those older than them and you will increase your chances greatly by going for girls around two years younger than you.

However they are often very stupid so this may be unsatisfying, and depending on your age this may be illegal.

 

[Enteebee]

Oh thank god they unmerged these POS platitudes from Dan's thread...

 

[scaredytiger]

thanks for the extensive insight into relationships you've gained from your massive 16 years on this earth and one steady boyfriend, scaredytiger

thanks for being sarcastic.

 

[katie tully]

what is this shit

 

[Riet]

There's like a predatory food chain of who goes for who.

 

[dieburndie]

thanks for being sarcastic.

Ah on that note
Tip #2 sarcasm and intelligent wit can be turnoffs for younger sluts if not kept subtle.
Try to dumb yourself down a bit, but not quite to their level.

 

[scaredytiger]

regarding riet and dieburndie: "moderately intelligent" was key.

 

[scaredytiger]

typo fixed.

 

[Riet]

Not really, intelligence doesn't factor into it.

 

[dieburndie]

regarding riet and dieburndie: "moderately intelligent" was key.

#3 Younger girls will try and come across smarter and different to other people their age to try and impress you.
Deliberately baiting them with words and references they don't understand is fun, but won't aid your success.

 

[Enteebee]

#5 I know things about how to get sex and have a good relationship guys!

 

[dieburndie]

#4 dieburndie is a gay

such a queeeeeer

 

[Farfour]

What the FUCK is this shit? Bitch, all the answers you need are in Schroe's thread, fuck this shit off. Lock thread ban faggot