am i analyzing this too much? (1 Viewer)

[ballerinabarbie]

ok my b/f and i broke up a week ago (he ended it) so i thought i should probably send him a msg or something to show that i don't hate him and still want to be friends - something along the lines of "hey was thinking about you and wondered how you were, are u in melb?" and he replied saying "yeah i'm ok, sitting infront of work as usual, how are you going?" - i reply with "i'm alright, had a good night tonight. talk to u later" - then like an hour later i get a msg from him saying "see ya" and that was it... what am i meant to think? is that just like oh i better say something so she doesn't think i'm being rude and not replying, or see ya as in "yeah whatever, i won't ever see her again..." i'm totally confused.... or am i just overanalyzing the situation (something that i'm very good at) and i need to get over it and realise that he didn't really mean anything by it

 

[AsyLum]

you broke up with him, you're mind is confused and you want him back, you are looking for a way of getting him back,the slimmest will offer you hope.

unfortunately you are reading too much into it my dear. sorry

 

[peepee]

yes you are.

 

[Dash]

Personally I think it's the... "i better say something so she doesn't think i'm being rude"

 

[dark`secrets]

seeing he broke it off, i think i agree with what dash said.
it's the period of awkwardness and people tend to reply just to not be rude.

 

[ballerinabarbie]

yes yes i have now realised that i need to just get over it, it's a message and means nothing... its amazing what 20 minutes of time can do...and change

 

[dark`secrets]

hey at least he replies.
i msged mine to say hello and there is no reply at all.

 

[AsyLum]

hey at least he replies.
i msged mine to say hello and there is no reply at all.

at least yours didnt take 6 months

 

[SuGa BunI =D]

WOT IF.... he was in the toilet chucking crab n didn’t get an opportunity to check his phone til 1hr later??

gurli, i think your over analysing the situation. after all its only a msg rite? =)

 

[dark`secrets]

at least yours didnt take 6 months

i doubt he'd even interact with me again
all he does is (on msn) goes "ohh you got a bf now?"
then goes brb and never returns.

 

[AsyLum]

at least yours talked to you, ive talked what i think 3-4 times since then

 

[dark`secrets]

i want my god damn sms reply to say "im great thanks nicole!"

 

[AsyLum]

*sms' nicole*
IM GREAT THANKS NICOLE!

 

[dark`secrets]

*waits for it*
grrrrr.. where is it eh?

its a total piss off when it was an agreement made before the relationship started.

 

[AsyLum]

rofl! well dont you think that sorta meant the relationship had no chance in the first place, thinking the after effects :S

just my thought

 

[Loz#1]

I'm against sending SMS's when it has the potential to fuck things up or make me confused. Except when I'm drunk.

But yeah, maybe you should just wait till you see him in person to make sure everything is okay.

 

[dark`secrets]

rofl! well dont you think that sorta meant the relationship had no chance in the first place, thinking the after effects :S

just my thought

i never thought of it that way lol
doesnt really matter, im over it just that its pretty snobby what he's doing
*shrugs*

 

[babydoll_]

ballerina you're overanalysing - i know cos i did the same thing

don't think anything of it... just give it time don't make a big deal, there's plenty of reason he could've delayed replying

 

[SipSip]

Over reading is often a flaw in a relationship. Like thinking too much when your bf/gf is with someone of their opposite sex, some would immediately feel that their relationship is under threat. But on the other hand, such over-reading is what signifies the fact that we love that person.

 

[peepee]

Over reading is often a flaw in a relationship. Like thinking too much when your bf/gf is with someone of their opposite sex, some would immediately feel that their relationship is under threat. But on the other hand, such over-reading is what signifies the fact that we love that person.

dude, where the hell do you get this stuff from??
lol