@Stazi
Edited in: Additionally, I find it puzzling that you are putting forward the argument that, by appearing a nerd makes you less sociable. Though I was, like all non-sociable stereotypical asians, shy and closed to myself, I am able to interact despite the facade of nerdiness. And I believe that it is due to stereotypical misunderstanding that "All nerds are non-approachable" or "All asians don't speak English" or "All asians will pull your marks down" caused this hype. So please don't generalise!
Whilst I agree that I do look like a nerd (despite the fact that I was 12, when I first arrived at Australia, and I didn't speak a single English word, and that I just lost everything I know to me, and despite the fact that I do NOT look like a nerd when I was 12), there ARE people who are introvert, and it is an inherit property of them.
Granted, they are less sociable (in the beginning at least) and less likely to be approachable, this does NOT make them any way lesser of a human than you do.
Two more things I would like to add to this:
- NOT all international students are shy, speechless, stick-to-their-own-culture snobs. I've seen alot of international students blend in with other people, despite their horrifying accent.
- I don't think it's possible to change the introvert'ness in a person. But given time and the right guidance, they can learn to become more sociable.
On your point on presentation, I found it surprising that, despite the accent, he was a very all round actor and coorperator. The body language, the colourful tones, etc etc.
The presentation I have prepared is not a conventional, stand and talk kind of presentation. It also requires understanding of context, and convey the idea to the audiences. And I believe he has done just that.
That being said, it may also be because I myself came from a non-English speaking background, which is why I can empathise them a lot more and a lot easier.
Edited for grammatical errors.
Edited in: Additionally, I find it puzzling that you are putting forward the argument that, by appearing a nerd makes you less sociable. Though I was, like all non-sociable stereotypical asians, shy and closed to myself, I am able to interact despite the facade of nerdiness. And I believe that it is due to stereotypical misunderstanding that "All nerds are non-approachable" or "All asians don't speak English" or "All asians will pull your marks down" caused this hype. So please don't generalise!
Whilst I agree that I do look like a nerd (despite the fact that I was 12, when I first arrived at Australia, and I didn't speak a single English word, and that I just lost everything I know to me, and despite the fact that I do NOT look like a nerd when I was 12), there ARE people who are introvert, and it is an inherit property of them.
Granted, they are less sociable (in the beginning at least) and less likely to be approachable, this does NOT make them any way lesser of a human than you do.
Two more things I would like to add to this:
- NOT all international students are shy, speechless, stick-to-their-own-culture snobs. I've seen alot of international students blend in with other people, despite their horrifying accent.
- I don't think it's possible to change the introvert'ness in a person. But given time and the right guidance, they can learn to become more sociable.
On your point on presentation, I found it surprising that, despite the accent, he was a very all round actor and coorperator. The body language, the colourful tones, etc etc.
The presentation I have prepared is not a conventional, stand and talk kind of presentation. It also requires understanding of context, and convey the idea to the audiences. And I believe he has done just that.
That being said, it may also be because I myself came from a non-English speaking background, which is why I can empathise them a lot more and a lot easier.
Edited for grammatical errors.
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