dude 17 year old an 12 year old definitely wrong!!! if someone thats 17 tried crackin on to my 12 year old sister i would flog the absolute F**k outta them!!! once they are 16 i have no probs with her hookin up with a guy that is 5 years older, though 16 year olds and 21 year olds have completely different "ideas" about relationships... i definitely think a 17 year old girl that has a crush on a 12 year old needs a definite boost in confidence!!! dude whats wrong with you!!! very uncool... she should seriously get over the barbie dolls stage and move onto playing with fire, alcohol and cigarettes!!! thats just as much fun!!! time to grow up!!! if that 17 year old girl did act upon her feelings she would be considered a child sex offender by the NSW government, and most likely charged with having carnal knowledge (knowing the age of the child and engaging in sexually explicit activity with a minor), and Statutory rape of course, plus the prosecutor for the child may throw in a few others also, depending on what she does to him, and it will be considered as what she did to him, as he is a child and cannot be held responsible for his actions until age 13 i think, please correct me if im wrong would help in legal studies!!! Lol anyways hope that helps you out a bit, and iof that queer ass girl is reading this man GROW UP!!! your SICK!!!!!!!!