Advice please! (1 Viewer)

[thereshegoes]

I'm happy no one here knows me.
That is all.
:wave:
Yerrr, anyway.
I'm a good student, get good marks etc.
But.
Last night I went out and met this dude at a randoms house [where alcohol was involved] where i went with 2 friends whom knew the guy.
I talked to him for a bit and that was it.
He also agreed to drive us home as we had to get up early the next day.
So we left after 11.
He got my number and now he wont stop texting me.
Calling me baby, sweetie, hunny, etc.
I've replied to his texts about 5 times and he's sent me 21 texts and tried to call me 4 times.
By the way, he's 26.
10 years older than me.
This is the first time I've been out in ageess.
And like, what the hell.
I swear I didn't lead him on. I've never been totally smashed. I remember everything. And have only drank a few times [about once a month] just socially.
Then I get him to drive me and my friends an hour away back home.
I had no other way. Haha.
And yeah, I just don't know how to get rid of him.
I don't want to be mean.
I think I lead guys on subconsciously or something.
At the party he was telling me I had a gorgeus smile and texting me saying I'm hot and that crap.
Pffttt, whatever.
Yeah.
So
- HOW THE HELL DO I TELL HIM I DON'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM.
I've asked my friends and they're just like 'hahaha'
I'll get an incoming text and I'll be like "wow, look who it from"
and there like "omg, hahaha"
Yeah. Seriously, help me.
I'm guessing other people have been in this situation too.
- What kind of 26-year-old hits on a 16-year-old and doesn't just wanna screw?

 

[jb_nc]

I'm happy no one here knows me.
That is all.
:wave:
Yerrr, anyway.
I'm a good student, get good marks etc.
But.
Last night I went out and met this dude at a randoms house [where alcohol was involved] where i went with 2 friends whom knew the guy.
I talked to him for a bit and that was it.
He also agreed to drive us home as we had to get up early the next day.
So we left after 11.
He got my number and now he wont stop texting me.
Calling me baby, sweetie, hunny, etc.
I've replied to his texts about 5 times and he's sent me 21 texts and tried to call me 4 times.
By the way, he's 26.
10 years older than me.
This is the first time I've been out in ageess.
And like, what the hell.
I swear I didn't lead him on. I've never been totally smashed. I remember everything. And have only drank a few times [about once a month] just socially. I don't like the feeling it gives me.
Then I get him to drive me and my friends an hour away back home.
I had no other way. Haha.
My friends got out alot, sexually active, etc.
I don't.
I have done stuff but I'm stilll a virgin.
And yeah, I just don't know how to get rid of him.
I don't want to be mean.
I think I lead guys on subconsciously or something.
At the party he was telling me I had a gorgeus smile and texting me saying I'm hot and that crap.
Pffttt, whatever.
Yeah.
So
- HOW THE HELL DO I TELL HIM I DON'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM.
I've asked my friends and they're just like 'hahaha'
I'll get an incoming text and I'll be like "wow, look who it from"
and there like "omg, hahaha"
Yeah. Seriously, help me.
I'm guessing other people have been in this situation too.
- What kind of 26-year-old hits on a 16-year-old and doesn't just wanna screw?

DIDNT READ

 

[thereshegoes]

Wow. Thanks for the input.
Why post?

 

[jb_nc]

Wow. Thanks for the input.
Why post?

DIDNT READ THIS EITHER

 

[ur_inner_child]

Ignore block delete.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

What kind of 26-year-old hits on a 16-year-old and doesn't just wanna screw?

A gay one.

 

[tehsky]

lol just use the 'i ran outta credit' excuse
and as if its hard to ignore ;o
just be like buh byeeeeee. and continueee doin whatever =]

 

[iamsickofyear12]

How hard is it to say "I don't like you stop sending me so many messages"

 

[ur_inner_child]

"You're unfortunate looking and I can never be attracted to you"

 

[ur_inner_child]

"I have Herpes"

 

[Big80smullet]

"I used to have aids, but now that im all better we can do stuff right?"

 

[Gilbert1]

- HOW THE HELL DO I TELL HIM I DON'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM.

Thats pretty close to what you could TXT. Or just don't TXT him at all

 

[Big80smullet]

Paul Green is a massive cunt

id vote for him!!!

 

[Testpilot]

"Hay I just told BeeOhhEss my entire life story and they think you should fuck off and leave me alone. I concur with BeeOhhEss, goodbye."

Alternatively:-

"Unfortunately for you, the effects of alcohol wear off"

I.
Found.
The.
random.
tangents.
And.
Poor
Grammar.
Insightful.

I'm all for paragraphs, but each sentence does not need its own paragraph.

"I have Herpes"

On the train yesterday some guy (with his girlfriend) was telling his mate how the navy rejected him because his physical showed up that he had herpes. I laughed when the girlfriend heard this and flinched.

</random anecdote>

 

[kokodamonkey]

just be thankful its only your mobile # and not your home phone.

 

[thereshegoes]

I'm all for paragraphs, but each sentence does not need its own paragraph.

I dunno why I do that. Habit I guess. Sorrryyy.
Hehe.

Yeah, thanks guys!
Easiest way for me is to ignore I think, eh.
I forgot to mention he had a baby seat in the back of his car -_-'

 

[Evilo]

say your not interested and the messages/calls need to stop. maybe mention something about him being nearly twice your age. etc
Hopefully he can be mature about it.

don't use an excuse like "im not interested because i have a bf" -otherwise he'll be waiting *roll*

 

[DownInFlames]

"You're unfortunate looking and I can never be attracted to you"

lol do this one.

Then get a new phone number. A small price to pay.



edit: I still don't get how being a good student is in any way relevant to your post.