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zaadee said:
7. All girls need company; don't always take up your friends' invitations to go out and play.
how old are you? 10?


always take the chance and cherish her, and take care of her as if she was a baby or a child.
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this thread makes me lol so hard everytime i read it
 

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33. Refrain from preventing her attempts to destroy the world. She wishes to join you in the afterlife at the same time. Win-win.
 

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trolloutaface said:
-tell her that she's perfect and doesn't need to change a thing
-call her every night before you go to bed
-tell her she looks beautiful (not 'hot' or 'sexy').
-hug her :/
i agree. being the "girl next door" type, ill give some more advice.

1) get to know her. really know her. talk to her. listen. show an interest in what she does.

2)be yourself. dont pretend to be something your not

3)she is always better then your ex. even if she's not.

4)excepting above, always tell the truth. dont let her find out from someone else, what you should have told her yourself

5)dont be too clingy or distant. find a good middle ground. no 1) helps with this.

6)care!! and try to show it.

and one last thing. if you want it to last with a chick, dont get drunk and have a one night stand.

so boys....
what do you look for in a girl?
and how would you like your girl to act towards you?
 

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x.kuuro.hana.x said:
i agree. being the "girl next door" type, ill give some more advice.

1) get to know her. really know her. talk to her. listen. show an interest in what she does.

2)be yourself. dont pretend to be something your not

3)she is always better then your ex. even if she's not.

4)excepting above, always tell the truth. dont let her find out from someone else, what you should have told her yourself

5)dont be too clingy or distant. find a good middle ground. no 1) helps with this.

6)care!! and try to show it.

and one last thing. if you want it to last with a chick, dont get drunk and have a one night stand.

so boys....
what do you look for in a girl?
and how would you like your girl to act towards you?
In regards to point 1 you may need stalker instincts to perfect this.
 

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Providence. said:
In regards to point 1 you may need stalker instincts to perfect this.
lol. maybe.

nahh tho, i just meant that the best relationships, consist of close friendship as well as physical attraction. it takes time to get to know someone, and conversation.

and iv seen it happen, perfect relationships. that last... just not to me.

but then, i have no luck with boys. im the "girl next door". always the friend, never the girl friend.
 

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x.kuuro.hana.x said:
but then, i have no luck with boys. im the "girl next door". always the friend, never the girl friend.
well stop looking so freakin emo and lay off the eyeshadow hun.
 

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x.kuuro.hana.x said:
lol. maybe.

nahh tho, i just meant that the best relationships, consist of close friendship as well as physical attraction. it takes time to get to know someone, and conversation.

and iv seen it happen, perfect relationships. that last... just not to me.

but then, i have no luck with boys. im the "girl next door". always the friend, never the girl friend.
So you do not take into account the intelligence of a partner ? Only by their cover not their contents ? I see ...
 

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mr_brightside said:
well stop looking so freakin emo and lay off the eyeshadow hun.
I love emos especially. They are willing to die and go to heaven and meet God as everyone on Earth should be doing right now according to the new Destiny Testament.
 

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i diddnt mean that inteligence isnt important.
it IS dammit!!!

i hate and will not go out with a guy that cant have an intelligent conversation. how else do you REALLY get to know someone? beyond the exterier?

and how do you know if i dress emo or not?
i dont really, im more girly harajuku crossed with gothic rock.
but anyhoo. i wasnt meaning to sound emo. it was a half-joking making fun of myself coment.
maybe i should have done my usual trick of poking out my tongue?
 

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x.kuuro.hana.x said:
i diddnt mean that inteligence isnt important.
it IS dammit!!!

i hate and will not go out with a guy that cant have an intelligent conversation. how else do you REALLY get to know someone? beyond the exterier?

and how do you know if i dress emo or not?
i dont really, im more girly harajuku crossed with gothic rock.
but anyhoo. i wasnt meaning to sound emo. it was a half-joking making fun of myself coment.
maybe i should have done my usual trick of poking out my tongue?
So the guy doesn't have to be a theoretical physicist right? Also, if you display any characteristics/appearances exemplified by any character (or alike) in Gundam SEED or similar anime contact me immediately. The anime revolution here in this forums must also be resurrected, hence my presence here. ONCE AGAIN I LOVE HIJACKING THREADS
 

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WRAP HER IN A HIJAB AND MAKE SURE SHE DOES NOT VIOLATE THE ISLAMIC CODES. We DO NOT TOLERATE SKIN!!!

DOWN WITH SKIN!
 

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that was possibly the shittiest collection of bullshit stereotypes and cliches ive seen in a long time. congradulations.

follow these and ur fukd
n not how ud want to be either
 

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jooobl said:
I am going to tell you exactly what is wrong with this thread, because I am at home and bored.

1. When you fall in love with a girl, you have to loudly tell her. Girls are usually very closed and insecure. If you love her, then tell her, it doesn't matter how many times you have to tell her. These three words "I love you" - girls will never get tired of listening to them.
This is incorrect. I get over this VERY quickly. Jeez okay I get it you love me, stop telling me dammit- I don't want someone to sound so wimpy and obsessive with me.




2. When you don't love her anymore, don't hurt her. Boys should try not to cause too much pain for the girl, should be willing to take the blame, and should tell her that it's because you fell out of love with her. A girl's heart is very fragile, it's very hard for a girl to recover after being hurt really bad.
This doesn't apply to me, for I am too hot to be broken up with




3. When you two are deeply in love, don't just assume that you guys are like old married couples and you don't have to be sweet and romantic. Girls will be girls, and any girl wants a sweet and caring boy.
Fuck NO! I do not want a 'sweet' and 'caring' 'boy'.




4. Boys have their egos, girls do too. Don't mind her if she's being vain in front of her friends in front of you. That's just showing you that she has confidence, so she wants you to be better than everyone else too.
I am vain with or without a boyfriend. Dont like it, leave




5. When she's stopping, no matter how tired you are, no matter how you don't want her to try on every single clothes in the store, never show how impatient you are to her. Because girls are natural shoppers; and she wants to spend time with her loved one shopping, which shows that she actually wants to spend quality time with you. Even though you're tired and you don't like it, watching her be happy - you should be able to understand that it's worth it.
First of all, 'stopping'? Wtf. I think you mean shopping. I hate shopping. I do not need to try on every single peice of clothing, that is a waste of time I could be spending playing video games, or at the gym. And even if on the odd occassion I do need to go shopping, I would go by myself and get in and out asap. I also don't want to be 'watched', thats fucking weird




6. Every month, girls will have a few days where they're in a bad mood or be sick. Those few days they really need to be taken care of, so you should be gentle with her and be a good boyfriend to her.
I can be moody any time of the month- And no @ this totm you don't need to give it to me any gentler than before




7. All girls need company; don't always take up your friends' invitations to go out and play. Keep the relationships between your girlfriend and your friends good and equal so neither one of them dies.
That is what my cats are for. Go out whenever you want, I don't need to fucking see you all the time, in fact, I hate it when you see me too much, it is obsessive and clingy- piss off already





8. Girls like to cook and do the laundry for people they love. When they do things like that, they're just expressing their love for you. So sometimes, you should do the cooking to show your love for her, right? Sometimes, a small surprise in the relationship will really spark it up.
I have never done laundry in my life, and I don't cook much- there goes that theory. If you want food, cook it yourself




9. When a girl tells you "I'm strong, you don't need to worry about me", you have to pay attention! When she says things like that, she's just being strong for you. Usually, girls are 'weak', so when she's being 'strong' is probably when she has to leave you. So always take the chance and cherish her, and take care of her as if she was a baby or a child.
What kind of a lame girl says 'im strong'. If you don't need to worry about me - I mean it I don't play games I am honest. And I don't want to be taken care of as a child or baby.




10. Don't let her feel like a failure on relationships. When she does that, then it's really hard for her to change her mind. At anytime, don't hurt a girl, because sometimes they can't take the pain. When you love a girl, you have to favor her, hold her tightly.
If it doesnt work out, it doesnt work out. Most girls are not going to go and slit there wrists. And I don't need to be held tightly.




A girl's wants are actually very simple - she only wants someone to love her.
I don't actually- I don't want a relationship, I don't want someone to 'love me' I want someone to............


Beleive it or not I am not a feminist, slut or a bitch actually- I am just telling it how it is - oh that and the fact I am so sick of everyone around me with relationships and the shit that comes with them, and to point out the fact that there are girls out there that don't want to be babied, and just want a normal guy who won't become obsessed and clingy with them :mad1:

Yes I am frustrated in more ways than one :bomb:
So in simplier words, you're not a bitch, but an ungrateful bitch...lucky for guys you're not looking for a relationship
 

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"""8. Girls like to cook and do the laundry for people they love. When they do things like that, they're just expressing their love for you. So sometimes, you should do the cooking to show your love for her, right? Sometimes, a small surprise in the relationship will really spark it up.

9. When a girl tells you "I'm strong, you don't need to worry about me", you have to pay attention! When she says things like that, she's just being strong for you. Usually, girls are 'weak', so when she's being 'strong' is probably when she has to leave you. So always take the chance and cherish her, and take care of her as if she was a baby or a child.


A girl's wants are actually very simple - she only wants someone to love her."""

Okay, now, it seems like you've been in a relationship where the girl was all of teh above. But seriously, you shouldn't use that one girl to judge every other. Girls aren't that simple. they;re actually very complicated and if you think you've got them figured out then you're deadly wrong. You're categorising girls as simple, housewifely, and 'weak', only interested in love and what a man can do to her. wtf, obviously you need to get out there and engulf in the 21st century. man, you have no idea.

and yes, i'm a feminist.
 

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Exphate said:
What the fuck are you on about.
obviously it means the list is outdated and 21st centuryw omen are different.
duh.
 

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