Looks don't really matter in the long run. You need confidence and not to be a retarded. That's pretty much all that is required. I used to be sad and pathetic, then my awesome genes started to kick in and now I'm like super mega awesome.
Shadow, you've never made out with a girl. I've made out with 8, 7 of which have been in the past 12 months.
But you're pathetic for not getting bitten by ants.