OP I think SylviaB desperately needs some advice on how to talk to girls or like just how to be a respectful person altogether
(btw you're gorgeous adrita dw ;) )
mine were about the size of my palm... which is veryyy small lol, about the length of a lipstick. i liked to grip my fingers around them. just make them whatever size you are comfortable with, you won't get marked down, trust