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hope
I understand that. Remember that your life is not solely defined by your academics, and while sometimes it seems like the only way to continue forward is by achieving a certain goal, which doesn't even come down to you in the end (as it is a ranking); there will always be a way forward, even if it wasn't what you were planning, or isn't something your parents aimed for, or isn't in the exact path of your brother. You are what you are, you will be what you become. What you become is not something you can always decide, but you can try your hardest to be.yeh, but my brother graduated from girra with a rlly good atar and it rlly does put a lot of pressure on me, especially from my parents' silent expectations as well, but yeh its all upto god at the end of the day.