missed opportunities ?!?! (3 Viewers)

[Aeonium]

also, while we're all here, do you consider this a red flag :
- keeping friends of the opposite gender

not rly but in rare cases friends can push boundaries that interfere in the relo

this is less prevalent in one gender schools right>?
(not gay ^ qn is ppl avoid relationships well in one gender schools bc they dont interact w the other gender as often^)

not necessarily though maybe more likely with tate n stuff

 

[liamkk112]

lmao they didn't fuck up in any sense
we were just incompatible asf and I don't think I loved him I just loved the attention, crazy

I ended up self destructing in a lot of ways bcz nothing mattered anymore except him, which is NOT how a healthy relationship works

if a relationship makes you lose yourself, ur friends ur hobbies your studies mental health then u need to leave immediately

yup happened to me

but it was weird bc we were supposed to be friends so thats a whole mental breakdown right there

 

[totally_screwed]

wait I messed up the pronouns I was tryna be discreet

 

[Aeonium]

wait I messed up the pronouns I was tryna be discreet

you just lowered the possible partner from 8 billion to 4 billion i'm going to dox you now fr

 

[totally_screwed]

yup happened to me

but it was weird bc we were supposed to be friends so thats a whole mental breakdown right there

hope ur doing better now

 

[totally_screwed]

you just lowered the possible partner from 8 billion to 4 billion i'm going to dox you now fr

LMFAOOOO

 

[liamkk112]

hope ur doing better now

yea i am

 

[AsuTeksu]

this is less prevalent in one gender schools right>?
(not gay ^ qn is ppl avoid relationships well in one gender schools bc they dont interact w the other gender as often^)

my school is one gender and there's a lot of relationships between the same gender

 

[xoNat]

lmao they didn't fuck up in any sense
we were just incompatible asf and I don't think I loved him I just loved the attention, crazy

I ended up self destructing in a lot of ways bcz nothing mattered anymore except him, which is NOT how a healthy relationship works

if a relationship makes you lose yourself, ur friends ur hobbies your studies mental health then u need to leave immediately

what do you do if you're on the receiving end of that like the other person
how do you let them down without destroying them

 

[AsuTeksu]

what do you do if you're on the receiving end of that like the other person
how do you let them down without destroying them

i don't have any worthy input, but one thing to always avoid is, "it's not you, it's me" like that's honestly the biggest dagger

 

[xoNat]

i don't have any worthy input, but one thing to always avoid is, "it's not you, it's me" like that's honestly the biggest dagger

oops

 

[xoNat]

wow the guest users are so interested in this thread hi strangers

 

[Aeonium]

wyd if an international student goes
hello u have big eye, small face, 刚满 18 岁, double eyelid, chopstick leg, face like upside down sunflower seed, i got lost in your collarbone, get in my BMW and Be My Wife what ur wechat?

 

[totally_screwed]

what do you do if you're on the receiving end of that like the other person
how do you let them down without destroying them

honestly that was the least of my concerns, bcz the relationship was incredibly damaging for me and for my own sake I had to cut the person off once and for all

 

[totally_screwed]

wyd if an international student goes
hello u have big eye, small face, 刚满 18 岁, double eyelid, chopstick leg, face like upside down sunflower seed, i got lost in your collarbone, get in my BMW and Be My Wife what ur wechat?

I'm running

 

[xoNat]

honestly that was the least of my concerns, bcz the relationship was incredibly damaging for me and for my own sake I had to cut the person off once and for all

True ig it has to happen

 

[nsw..wollongong]

face like upside down sunflower seed

im really REALLY trying to visualise what this is

 

[AsuTeksu]

honestly that was the least of my concerns, bcz the relationship was incredibly damaging for me and for my own sake I had to cut the person off once and for all

yea, it might seem harsh but if someone has been selfish for the entire (or most) duration of the relationship, you have every right to be that little bit more selfish and end things in a way you feel is best

possibly, it could also bring down their inflated ego and teach them a thing or two

 

[AsuTeksu]

wyd if an international student goes
hello u have big eye, small face, 刚满 18 岁, double eyelid, chopstick leg, face like upside down sunflower seed, i got lost in your collarbone, get in my BMW and Be My Wife what ur wechat?

did this happen to you?

 

[liamkk112]

im really REALLY trying to visualise what this is