yasminee96
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So it was the "norm of the time", but everything in the Qur'an is absolute and unchanging and most be adhered to exactly, regardless of changing norms, right?
I love how this is all you can pick on lol.in all religions i love the "norm of the time" excuse. Catholic church condoned slavery, but then again it was the "norm of the time." I thought gods morals were supposed to be timeless and absolute, so much for that shit aye.
The rule stands as in Islam, there is no teenager, there's only child and adult. Someone reaches adulthood when they reach the age of puberty. So, essentially, Aishah (r) was at an age where she was able to make her own decisions. Personally, at 9 years old no i wouldn't get married, not only because there's so much more to live for imo, but because it's looked down upon. However, if i'm considered an adult at that age, then essentially, there's nothing forbidden about it. It's strange when you think of it now, a Man of much greater age marrying her, however back in those days, it was okay. There was nothing wrong with it and no one was doing anything out of their own will. It wasn't child abuse. It wasn't sexual abuse either.
If you want to talk about slavery, people were forced into slavery and had no choice. That obviously is abuse. And thus clearly is wrong. And way off topic.