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I couldn't care less. I'm not particularly sexually driven so if they don't want sex I'm happy. I don't mind, so it's up to them.
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Do guys expect this in a relationship? (1 Viewer)
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asari
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So you're saying that a girl who is willing to have sex on the first date is not easy? It's just my view
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saying she is easy is devaluing her judgementSo you're saying that a girl who is willing to have sex on the first date is not easy? It's just my view
she has chosen to have sex with this person, for whatever reason
if she is easy it is saying she had no choice and was coerced pretty much
You have a point but I guess it's because I don't see a relationship that way.
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What if they are just strongly attracted to you, they aren't necessarily "easy"So you're saying that a girl who is willing to have sex on the first date is not easy? It's just my view
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yes and your view is a completely unfair opinion.So you're saying that a girl who is willing to have sex on the first date is not easy? It's just my view
as boris said about other peoples choice.
just because a lady want to bang on the first date doesn't mean she's easy. she's made a decision to do it. there is nothing wrong with banging at all, and to make assumptions based on someones want to have or not have sex is completely unfair.
(bringing back this classic double standard) so if a man bangs on the first date does that mean he's easy too? no. it means he scored on the first date. good for him.
did you know that some women just enjoy sex and don't see it as some romantic lifelong agreement that means ~*~*you're together forever~~**~*~*~*~*
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Well if you think about it. What if that person viewed it as a one night stand. Wouldn't you appear to be "easy" if you wanted to be in a relationship with that person?
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Because you're a 12 year old and have no perception of anything and say things like:
What? I was only trying to accept a person's view. From how I was brought up premarital sex wasn't accepted in my family so I wanted to find out others thought on relationship without sex. I am not 12... I don't know much cause I've never been in a relationship.
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You don't know much because you've been brought up in a sheltered family.
wait... even if I was brought up from a sheltered family if I want to have a sexual relationship I can just be in one... All I have to do is hide it. So really it's my personal preference to not be sexually active.
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^This.
Maybe it's just me... but as a 17 year old female, I actually have no desire for anything like that at all.
IMO, if he's going to leave you because you wont let him stick it in, he's an asshole who only wanted you for sexual gratification.
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no but as nice as that is
most people, male or female, seek sexual gratification. sex (or the possibility of sex in the future) is ultimately the difference between friends and ~*couples*~
wow we share very similar viewpoints!
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Well yeah I would expect my partner to sleep with me. I'm sure waiting a while would not be a problem but not doing it at all would not be a relationship in my opinion anyway.
And for those saying they don't have any sexual desires, well they come with a relationship and unless you've actually experienced that sexual desire with someone it's a bit hard to say whether you would be able to wait or not.
And for those saying they don't have any sexual desires, well they come with a relationship and unless you've actually experienced that sexual desire with someone it's a bit hard to say whether you would be able to wait or not.