The friendzone. (1 Viewer)

[kcqn93]

It gets worse.

Yeah... It did.
She invited to her birthday lunch last weekend... It's was; her + me + her two bestfriends (female) ...

wooh love seems complicated, wonder how im going to deal with it in uni?

It's sucks. But don't worry... There's always the uni bar. Alcomahol helps... a bit.

Hmm... sounds about right. Though I'm not sure he wants to have lots of sex and pick up chicks. Especially if he still likes this girl.

Yeah... I'm kinda after a relationship... I want some bloody romance in my dull life.

is she a ganga?
does she use u for uni shit?

u say she msgs u form goodnight to goodmorning, is she msging you or is she just replying to ur msgs? since she didnt attempt to make contact with you for a week.

She's a goodie goodie girl. Parents are academics.
She does a different course, so no.
I guess she's just replying... I start most conversations... :\

 

[lamingtons]

If your goal is still to be with her, you're best off going no contact. There are more positive outcomes

this

 

[Hermes1]

just curious. is she like outside you league or sumfin. bcuz if she looks like Miranda Kerr and u dont look like Orlando Bloom, its not really fair to think she should love u even after all that bullshit about personality is all that matters.

 

[kcqn93]

just curious. is she like outside you league or sumfin. bcuz if she looks like Miranda Kerr and u dont look like Orlando Bloom, its not really fair to think she should love u even after all that bullshit about personality is all that matters.

She is definitely not hot. Bad sense of fashion. Same hair everyday. But I would consider her cute. Very happy and cheery.

 

[Shadowdude]

She is definitely not hot. Bad sense of fashion. Same hair everyday. But I would consider her cute. Very happy and cheery.

Sounds like you want her for the long haul and not just for a casual fling. Correct?

 

[Squishxmishyx]

She's so DTF. Judging from the way you type and your subjects you sound like a cute guy so she should fall for you. If she doesn't then go find someone else so you can take your mind off her or keep your distance away.
The other approach is to fully flirt with her and see what happens, like hold her hand spontaneously or buy her shit. Then KABAM stop it suddenly and she'll want it bad.

Btw buying stuff/shouting girls or helping her out with uni isn't classified as being used, it just turns them on or melts there hearts. It leaves a good impression so highly recommended (but don't overdo it).

 

[Hermes1]

She is definitely not hot. Bad sense of fashion. Same hair everyday. But I would consider her cute. Very happy and cheery.

well if shes in your league, all u can do is hope she can see that u clearly like her very much and that she will eventually reciprocate ur feelings for her.

 

[kcqn93]

Sounds like you want her for the long haul and not just for a casual fling. Correct?

Correct. I haven't genuinely liked a girl in quite sometime.

She's so DTF. Judging from the way you type and your subjects you sound like a cute guy so she should fall for you. If she doesn't then go find someone else so you can take your mind off her or keep your distance away.
The other approach is to fully flirt with her and see what happens, like hold her hand spontaneously or buy her shit. Then KABAM stop it suddenly and she'll want it bad.

Btw buying stuff/shouting girls or helping her out with uni isn't classified as being used, it just turns them on or melts there hearts. It leaves a good impression so highly recommended (but don't overdo it).

Finding someone else is quite a hard thing to do for me... (I do engineering, there are barely any girls, haha)

Now that she's ignoring me, the latter approach seems out of reach. :\

 

[jumb]

Don't buy shit, that's dumb.

Take my advice. The reason I feel so strongly about it is I'm in a similar situation and know this is what *I* need to do. It is hard.

 

[anne1010]

just curious. is she like outside you league or sumfin. bcuz if she looks like Miranda Kerr and u dont look like Orlando Bloom, its not really fair to think she should love u even after all that bullshit about personality is all that matters.

orlando bloom is not out of her league. i think shes absolutely stunning but hes really hot aswell. theyre in very similar leagues. if you want to compare different leagues, ud be better off comparing klum and seal.


and OP, gradually stop talking to her. see if she'll start any convos. shell either realise she wants you or will forget about you. both will be hard but theres no point chasing someone whose gonna hurt you

 

[slyhunter]

None of that is right.

Those 'feelings' talks always suck. You can come prepared with a list in your head, but you always come away with more questions than answers. If you talk, you will just scare her away and coming out feeling worse.

If your goal is still to be with her, you're best off going no contact. There are more positive outcomes:
a) she will discover she misses you
b) you will move on and have lots of sex and pick up chicks

Apart from Stockholm Syndrome, girls don't learn to love. To be fair, neither do guys, but that's irrelevant here.

Have to agree to an extent.

She's so DTF. Judging from the way you type and your subjects you sound like a cute guy so she should fall for you. If she doesn't then go find someone else so you can take your mind off her or keep your distance away.
The other approach is to fully flirt with her and see what happens, like hold her hand spontaneously or buy her shit. Then KABAM stop it suddenly and she'll want it bad.

Btw buying stuff/shouting girls or helping her out with uni isn't classified as being used, it just turns them on or melts there hearts. It leaves a good impression so highly recommended (but don't overdo it).

He still holds deep feelings for her, it's easier said than done to simply click and find different people. Trust me with this one.

well if shes in your league, all u can do is hope she can see that u clearly like her very much and that she will eventually reciprocate ur feelings for her.

No, it won't happen like that.

Correct. I haven't genuinely liked a girl in quite sometime.



Finding someone else is quite a hard thing to do for me... (I do engineering, there are barely any girls, haha)

Now that she's ignoring me, the latter approach seems out of reach. :\

I think you need to give it time and reassess your situation, say in a week or so and see if your feelings are the same or not.

Like jumb said, if she doesn't talk to you, she doesn't give a shit.

Don't buy shit, that's dumb.

Take my advice. The reason I feel so strongly about it is I'm in a similar situation and know this is what *I* need to do. It is hard.

Another one huh? This sucks...

 

[Hermes1]

orlando bloom is not out of her league. i think shes absolutely stunning but hes really hot aswell. theyre in very similar leagues. if you want to compare different leagues, ud be better off comparing klum and seal.


and OP, gradually stop talking to her. see if she'll start any convos. shell either realise she wants you or will forget about you. both will be hard but theres no point chasing someone whose gonna hurt you

yeh i no thats why i said if you dont look like orlando...

 

[kcqn93]

She's online. I'm online. She's talking to other people but not me. :\

On another notes, she talks about her guy friends from her classes and tkd club. About how creepy and stalker-ish they are around her, in person and online. She also nudges me and winks when I talk about girls from class with no intention of making her jealous...

 

[slyhunter]

She's online. I'm online. She's talking to other people but not me. :\

On another notes, she talks about her guy friends from her classes and tkd club. About how creepy and stalker-ish they are around her, in person and online. She also nudges me and winks when I talk about girls from class with no intention of making her jealous...

How do you know?

 

[anne1010]

yeh i no thats why i said if you dont look like orlando...

shit sorry, my apologies.


and op, idk every girl is different. but i think its time to let her go slowly if shes only gonna hrut you

 

[kcqn93]

How do you know?

Because she's talking to one of my friends who I just so happen to be talking to.

 

[Phoenix Fury]

this thread makes me sad

 

[eye ov azazel]

Love that feeling.

Am I doing it right?

edit: also, just try to get over her. put ur mind on other things like hobbies, or other girlz.

 

[M3H]

this thread makes me sad

big ups yoself

 

[theism]

sorry buddy, you've been friend-zoned.