I don't exactly blend in, but I stand out somewhat. Especially in this little community.
I differ from the 'norm' (what is normal?) around here in so many ways, I have odd interests that aren't exactly 'mainstream' and a vastly different outlook on life compared to most others. In the terms of being recognised, I'd prefer to be in the shadows than the centre of attention (hence why I refuse to get on stage regularly).
But what are we? Individual. Everyone is different. Do you mean "stand out" as in not do what every other media fabricated drone does? We're all a product of media. "Follow the crowd" as in do what every other Joe Average does? Think about it. You most likely follow almost the exact same routine in daily life as millions, billions of others do and as I stated, you follow media trends wether you'll accept it or not.