I don't need to be married to have a kid, I'm happy to live with my life partner and share our own loving bond with our kid because I know our relationship won't fail. I don't need a ring and a pretty piece of paper to have a child. I wouldn't use a surrogate either I'd adopt, why bring another life into this cruel world with racist/sexist (which ever one concerns homosexuality) people like you when I can make an existing life better.
Lol thats the thing buddy, unless you do just that and get married (as in the
true and only definition of marriage) then it won't in fact be your kid.
One doesn't have to think hard to demonstrate that same-sex couples aren’t as effective as heterosexual couples. Where do kids primarily learn things such as what’s okay and what’s not, how to treat each other, etc.? From their families. They see what goes on at home and that is their primary example to model. Boys need their fathers to see what men act like, girls need their mothers to see how women act (generalisations I know, but its truthful). And both need to see the opposite sex to see how it’s proper to treat the other. (Are they respectful to one another, etc.)
With same-sex couples, you run into a road block: There inherently won’t be only a mother and a father. Granted, one could say what about divorced families or single parents. But kids who grow up in divorced homes still have a mom and dad. They may not live together, but they still have them. And single parents still do as well, assuming that one hasn’t died. But in that case do you take the kids away because a parent died? Of course not. With mom-dad couples, you might run into instances where the kid doesn’t have a mom or dad. But with same-decouples you will never have both a mom and a dad because you can’t be definition.
Married couples can be terrible parents, certainly. And I’m not saying it’s impossible for homosexuals to be good parents. I am saying that male-female parents are the ideal thing. Does it always work the way it should? No. But just because something doesn’t always work doesn’t mean you abandon it and give in to homosexual adoption. For example, we have laws against rape, murder etc. Those laws don’t always bring successful results, but that doesn’t mean that we should get rid of the laws. (Again, it’s an extreme example, but it serves a point.)
There needs to be more adoption certainly, and less premarital sex that brings kids into unwanted families, certainly. But that doesn’t mean that we let homosexual couples adopt to remedy that. That just creates more problems. You can't fix the problems of one sexual immorality by promoting another.
If everyone just got some self control and kept it in their pants until they
were married, and wasn't obsessed with the notion of doing whatever they want under the (evidently) misguided belief that its not hurting anyone, then we wouldn't have any of these problems.
One would know BEFORE you edited your post.
It may not be legal YET in Australia but in other parts of the world it is a fact.
I edited my post becuase the new phrase sounds better and fits in better with my opening statement. I only edit to fix grammar or spelling or to rephrase things I've said badly.
Its a fact that in the Middle East and much of Africa homosexuality is punishable by death, or if the judge is feeling kind, life imprisonment. Yes some countries are far more liberal than us in terms of gay marriage, but others are not. Sweeping generalisations do not assist you in making your point.
Futhermore the people who actually persecute gays in the community, bash people up at school etc. are hardly going to stop doing so if gay marriage is instated. If you are after the freedom to live your private life the way you want, defiling marriage is not the answer.
And if you are trying to increase the quality of life for gays, why don't you spend money on STI education instead of campaigning for marriage? Over 71% of people in the States who have HIV are gay, and gays are universally overrepesented in every STI. If I were being cynical I could make the conclusion that gay sex is actually not good for you, but I won't as its your decision, just stop acting as if the reason why gays aren't smiled upon by everyone is because they don't yet have marriage "rights" and that its all going to change if they do.