OK, I'll give it a shot. (Can't necessarily say I'll be able to answer all subsequent questions though tbqh.)
3. i dont understand what u mean? the bible states clearly that god created one man, adam, and used one of his ribs to create a woman. how am i taking that out of context? where does it say in the bible about anything being a metaphor? is god a metaphor then? an idea used to teach small children right from wrong? good from bad? if so, then i'll accept that idea of god.
It's out of context because
1. Genesis (well, the first few chapters at least) was originally written in a 'poetic' form of language,
not a factual narrative-style report. This differs from other parts of the Bible which are written as historical recounts and a couple of various other different forms. Of course a lot of the 'poetry' gets lost in translation from the original ancient languages into English, in the same way translating most English puns and limericks into different languages doesn't really work.
2. It was originally written for a much, much,
much earlier audience of readers than ourselves, who did not have the level of scientific knowledge that we have today. Can you imagine taking a television set to the Middle Ages and then trying to explain to the people how it works? Of course you could start off using technical language, but they probably wouldn't have a clue what you're talking about - and so you'd have to simplify. A lot.
Similarly, can you imagine explaining the Big Bang theory and the mechanisms of evolution to civilisations with absolutely no knowledge of modern physics or biology? They wouldn't even have the vocabulary to describe such scientific processes, much less understand them. This is why the Genesis account of creation is a much more 'simplified' version of how the universe and life began - and I think you'll find that only hardcore Creationists truly believe in this completely literal interpretation of Genesis. I'd guess the majority of Christians do not believe that the world was created in six literal days, and most would also believe in microevolution at least (changes within a species) if perhaps not macroevolution (changes from one species into another)(for the record, I firmly believe in both).
This 'allegorical' or 'metaphorical' interpretation can then be extended further, even up to the point where some Christians don't believe there was a literal 'Adam' and 'Eve', but rather they figuratively represent the first human beings. Personally, I'm inclined to take this view, however there are still a lot of people who believe there was one Adam and one Eve, and there are valid arguments for that.
It tends to come down to personal belief, really, depending on your background etc, when it comes to the details of Genesis.