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wixxy2348

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crappy indeed =P
just wasnt what i was after
Yeah crappy... But I mean...
Jesus, since when does friends with benefits allow one to remain a virgin? :confused:

Fooling around is one thing, friends with benefits is entirely different. THe way I see it.
 

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nahh, relationships ftw. i could never do anything with someone i wasn't comfortable with and didn't trust. you need an emotional side to a relationship and friends with benefits gives you nothing.
Well, there's nothing that says you can't have an emotional connection with your friend-with-benefit, as long as it's not a romantic one. ;)
 

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Anyone who says friends with benefits means no one gets hurt ever is either retarded, or is amazingly good at keeping feelinggs out of it.
This. As soon as you start to feel something romantic towards a fuckbuddy/friends with benefits person, get out.

Right now, I like sex, I like being single and I don't like one night stands. So I'm pretty happy with a fwb scenario.

There is nothing wrong with casual sex as long as you're safe and aware of your situation.

Also:
you lose part of yourself to whoever you sleep with.
people think sex is only on the physical side (if it's just a friend.. no emotion).
but there's still the emotional and psychological aspect that's often neglected.
Uh. What? No.

Yes you can have all sorts of connections - emotion, physical, psychological, whatever - when you have sex but you can also just enjoy the physical act. Sure, sex in a relationship can be more fun sometimes because of those connections but I find myself less inhibited during more casual situations.

But, to each their own.
 

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Well, there's nothing that says you can't have an emotional connection with your friend-with-benefit, as long as it's not a romantic one. ;)
i suppose.

but cuddling is awesome!!! haha.

i guess i just know no different. with my shortest relationship being a over a year and all =||. i need to get out more. haha.
 

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i suppose.

but cuddling is awesome!!! haha.

i guess i just know no different. with my shortest relationship being a over a year and all =||. i need to get out more. haha.
no,
consider it a good thing.
heck, it's a great thing.
 

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Everyone has different wants and needs. I guess it works for some, but not for others. Depends what you are looking for
 

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unfortunately its difficult to accomplish
this

i wonder if anyone has ever had one where they simply just randomly said 'hey i think we should fuck' (something along those lines) rather than go through the whole process of getting comfortable n shit?
yep... we were friends but not overly close friends
 

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Wow. Where can I find these people to benefit off.

Location? Price?
 

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LMAOOOOOOOO !!
at the end of the day it's all good fun :) and you know what we are to young for serious relationship...
but u could find the right girl/boy by being friends with benefits :p
 

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i fucking hate when guys want FWB, and all along you've been of the idea that they actually want more. Lack.of.communication!
 

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Haha Friends with benefits is awesome.

You just have to find someone who isn't emotionallly too attached, like friends and stuff is fine but when one starts to get feelings you have to get out fast.

I had a good friend with random hookups and i started seeing someone else, and he was like what are you doing i thought we were more then friends with benefits even though thats what we agreed to be in the start. You just got to get if someone becomes attached.

But friends with benefits is good fun =D
 

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Haha Friends with benefits is awesome.

You just have to find someone who isn't emotionallly too attached, like friends and stuff is fine but when one starts to get feelings you have to get out fast.

I had a good friend with random hookups and i started seeing someone else, and he was like what are you doing i thought we were more then friends with benefits even though thats what we agreed to be in the start. You just got to get if someone becomes attached.

But friends with benefits is good fun =D
you're in year 11/12

wtf slut.
 

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Friends with benefits is basically maximising the advantages of having a girlfriend, and minimising the weakeness'. In a sense, maximising your physical and capital outlay.
 

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Haha. Am not. Im in year 11. And just because i can get some.

Friends with benefits is way better then relatioships because no one ends up getting hurt and it doesnt end up fucking up
 

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Haha. Am not. Im in year 11. And just because i can get some.

Friends with benefits is way better then relatioships because no one ends up getting hurt and it doesnt end up fucking up
You can probably also get some pretty nice STIs.
 

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