Confused (2 Viewers)

[Tangent]

how do u no if someone likes you?
this is in a normal school environment, and u r with them in class and in break

 

[cookie.banana]

love you or just like you?

 

[Guesss]

hmm... damn thats a hard one!

Well i'd go by the way they look at you! I mean u noe. wen u can fell some1 looking at you and wen u turn round they just look away! I think thats an indicator.

I noe. some girls are just naturally flirty but the way she is wif u... if she leads u on...indirectly i think its a sign cause if some1 is mucking around they tend 2 b more direct with the way they flirt! (thats wat i'v observed anyway)

If u lyk her... which it sounds lyk u do, you should take the chance and ask her if she feels the same

 

[CountVonChocula]

ask her parents for your hand in marraige

 

[gurusson]

ask her parents for your hand in marraige

thats just stupid...u r a berk

 

[HalcyonSky]

the 3 basic body language indicators are eye contact, playing with their hair when theyre looking at you or you're talking to them, and pointing their body towards you or leaning closer than usual

harder ones to look for would be dilated pupils, them scratching their wrist (no, dont start grooming them - its just some leftover evolutionary thing but apparently it still shows attraction), tilting their head, looking at ur lips when you're talking

if she's doing at least 3 of these things regularly then theres probably some attraction there


the verbal cues should be more obvious, if all she talks about is herself and she doesnt seem interested in anything about you then i wouldnt get too excited

 

[Guesss]

ask her parents for your hand in marraige

dn't u mean ask her parents for her hand in marriage!

 

[CountVonChocula]

um

 

[Guesss]

 

[Born Dancer]

hmm... damn thats a hard one!

Well i'd go by the way they look at you! I mean u noe. wen u can fell some1 looking at you and wen u turn round they just look away! I think thats an indicator.

I noe. some girls are just naturally flirty but the way she is wif u... if she leads u on...indirectly i think its a sign cause if some1 is mucking around they tend 2 b more direct with the way they flirt! (thats wat i'v observed anyway)

If u lyk her... which it sounds lyk u do, you should take the chance and ask her if she feels the same

hahahahaha.

 

[HalcyonSky]

is Guesss a real person?

 

[Guesss]

is Guesss a real person?

NOPE!

r u?

 

[Born Dancer]

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[tlodg]

haha ai love topics like these...i hope more ppl answer this

 

[ieatbarbies]

Its... just a lot obvious. It's not obvious to other people, but it should be very obvious to you.

Like before when you would never see her/him at all, now you scan the room randomly without paying attention and your eyes just lock for a brief part of a second.

the 3 basic body language indicators are eye contact, playing with their hair when theyre looking at you or you're talking to them, and pointing their body towards you or leaning closer than usual

harder ones to look for would be dilated pupils, them scratching their wrist (no, dont start grooming them - its just some leftover evolutionary thing but apparently it still shows attraction), tilting their head, looking at ur lips when you're talking

if she's doing at least 3 of these things regularly then theres probably some attraction there


the verbal cues should be more obvious, if all she talks about is herself and she doesnt seem interested in anything about you then i wouldnt get too excitedq

everything here

 

[Tangent]

If u lyk her... which it sounds lyk u do, you should take the chance and ask her if she feels the same

its no where near that easy
replace the her with a he

 

[jet]

its no where near that easy
replace the her with a he

It just got interesting! lol.
Nah, really, if youre a guy like your thing says, then just be all suave about it, if you know he is gay. If he isnt, then just ask. What can happen, he says no?

If your a girl then nothing really changes.

 

[Tangent]

no i m gay, but i dont want to say anything, cuz he is my friend i i dont want ot totally stuff everything up

 

[gurusson]

it has got a bit more difficult, if u no he swings that way, go for it, if not, try to make sure b4 u ask, one girl i asked was gay and i'm strait, that was embarassing

 

[Tangent]

and is there any subtle way to do this with a person u r good friends with