Ever feel like you're the only gay person at school? (2 Viewers)

[Dr_Doom]

how are you supposed to know if a friend is gay?

do they look at you weird? like stare?
do they talk or act strange?

what sets them apart if they aren't confident or comfortable with pronouncing it to the community/

Does he have sex with men?

 

[dongypro]

'Sif be gay.

Lol!!

 

[Redgoddess]

How do you become gay? Is it instant or have you been gay your whole life?

I've been thinking about women in a sexual way for a fairly long time, like since I hit puberty, but I only really admitted it to myself last year, and I'm not entirely sure if I'm gay or bisexual - I'm definitely attracted to women. Whether I'm attracted to men as well or just like looking at shirtless men because of an inground societal thing, I haven't quite figured out yet. *shrugs* I'm with a girl atm, but yeah...

 

[mitchyb1990]

You can usually tell if a friend is gay, because yes, they will act different. But if they don't, there's no harm in asking them.

 

[Dr_Doom]

Just coz you have sex with men doesn't make you gay... Wait.. Yes it does.

 

[jest]

I'd just like to share my experience with being gay in a Catholic high school and they weren't exactly great. Back in year 10, the year coordinator and assistant came up to talk to me after school. They asked me if there was something wrong because apparently I was spotted kissing a girl outside of school. I was so confused because I didn't think that that was a big deal or it was any of their business. Anyway they believed something was wrong so I had no choice but to visit the counsellor. This whole thing really pissed me off but I decided to ignore it. So then a year later a friend of mine (who happens to also be gay) is preparing for his art major work and he wanted to do something to show how homosexuality is treated in society. Because his idea had 'homosexuality' in it, he wasn't allowed to do it. Even his art teacher called it pornography which is really dumb because the only thing it would have is two guys holding hands! It really depressed him because as an art student, he was told to express himself in his art. It wasn't fair because others that had hetero couples in their artwork doing worse things than what he would have done were allowed to do them.
All I wanted to say is that it really sucks because there are some people that make a big deal out of something so little. BTW it's not really that easy to spot someone who's gay (unless your gaydar works) 'cause people never suspected I was.

 

[Dr_Doom]

wait wait wait.. You were kissing a girl.. But you're gay. Or are you just bi.

 

[jest]

yeah i am gay, not bi

 

[Dr_Doom]

oooooooo sorry I thought it was written buy a guy... But yeah now it makes sense :\

I see alot of chicks that are gay or bi and they look normal or unusually hot.. :\

 

[roar84eighty]

Fags

The real thing is about people being gay in high school is that no one cares. If you're really gay, people would of already guessed and if there was another one at your school, you'd know.
That is unless your gaydar is fucked.



P.s. I'm not gay, but everyone knows when someone else at the school is.

So true.

 

[-tal-]

how are you supposed to know if a friend is gay?

do they look at you weird? like stare?
do they talk or act strange?

what sets them apart if they aren't confident or comfortable with pronouncing it to the community/

You don't know usually if a person's gay. They're just normal I guess. Until you're checking out girls and they're checking out guys and then you notice.

 

[David Spade]

this thread is so me

i was the gayest person ever at school

 

[Pain]

Well there are those who are really good at hiding it. I mean, some are smack in your face obvious. But those who pretend not to be gay, and pull it off convincingly, including false trophy spouses. Then I applaud you.

 

[kami]

Gays don't go to school. We go to rest stops.

 

[Russdog]

you'd be surprised how many fags are in your grade, if you feel this way.. it all comes out years later.

 

[Graney]

I was pretty shocked when I found out Alan Jones was gay.

 

[Riet]

I was pretty shocked when I found out Alan Jones was gay.

hahaha i thought everyone knew that.

 

[Graney]

When did it come out? His wikipedia page blames Laws, who during interviews on enough rope about the 'cash for comment' business, implied Jones was gay for David Flint, open homosexual and head of the ABA.

He never would have risen to the top of the business if he was out. He still publicly denies it I gather?

 

[Riet]

Yeah, he denies it. He was a Master at Kings and shit tho, pretty dodgy if you ask me.

 

[whatashotbyseve]

Of course he does. I remember reading about his call boy in Jonestown who he just paid off. And Wallabies remember him starting during his coaching.

Plus he wears those gay handkerchief-looking things that match your tie in his suit pocket. If you wear one outside a wedding or attending Royal Ascot, you are gay.