Torn between 2! Need advice or help! (1 Viewer)

[LoUiE SmOoiE]

OK i got a bit of a dilemma that i need a bit of help with ok, now, starting it off, lets just call them by there first letter of there first name because it would b easier, S and L likes me ok, and i have to decide which one i like, but i like both of them! lets discover the facts:

S
-lives were i live
-is a very nice boy
-didnt click straight away tho
-cant hold a convo longer than prolly 20 mins
-friendly, caring, and also very understanding
-not so much attractive, but not disgustingly ugly!
-he doesnt have very many qualitys that i like in a guy
-doesnt have a curfew so can be out as late as he wants
-has to work but only fairly short shifts so i can see him often
-not so much funny
-age = 17
-taurus which goes fairly well with aries
-im sick of always making the first move on guys...i always get stuck leaning ova and making the first kiss!! ive seen S like 5 times already and he hasnt made a effort at all bcoz he 2 shy

*S has liked me for like 3 weeks but hasnt made a move because hes to shy, he also said that im the first girl that he has liked this much, i dnt really like shy guys..

L
-lives in parra
-very nice, clicked instantly, we talked for hours and hours and can hold a convo for ages
-works long hours, 13 hour days, 5 days a week
-very nice, friendly, funny (which is very important in a relationship to me)
-very good looking
-age=20
-scorpio which says doesnt go really well with aries
-only have met him once, but we talk on the phone a fair bit and wants to see me very soon
-not shy at all....and very understanding coz i basically ran over onto the gutter in his car while trying to park and he didnt really care...

I NEED UR HELP GUYS COZ IM SCREWED!!

 

[ichig0]

it kind of sounds like u like L more already! u've listed more good qaulities from him more than the S dude..

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

firstly, screw astrology, it means crap so throw that out..but like ichigo said, looks like youve chosen Luke over Sam

 

[Winston]

yeah exactly, you'd obviously go for the one you click well the best.

 

[LoUiE SmOoiE]

there names arnt luke or sam! its lorenzo and shane
but the problem with L is that ive only met him once...but we talk on the phone alot....and i dont wana say to S that i dnt like you and then go with L and find out that he aint the person i thought he was....but i did click with S but not as much as L, but L also seems a bit iffy, theres sumfing about him that i cant figure out yet...

 

[ichig0]

well firstly..dont u think u should meet this lorenzo dude more often b4 u decide??no need to rush with these things.. take ur time to get to know both of them.. and when u know for certain their personalities.. then decide

 

[SKA]

hun-e listen to me

s is a dik... and hes a disgusting pig... not that i can do better or nething but hmmm

and even tho i havent met L .. i like him already.. .arghhhhhhhhh there is only one problem... hes from sydney sweetheart... u can never depend or trust a guy from syd for the simple reason ... they can do whatever they want n u might never find out!

 

[Toodulu]

i'd go with the first guy as long as you think you can forget about L after going out with him. i just reckon problems will surface very quickly with the 2nd guy after a while.

and also, how experienced are you with dating?

 

[Ziff]

Play both off against each other in the style of a reality TV show.

 

[Will_Sparky]

I'd say L, you two obviously have a spark. Follow it through.

 

[jhakka]

Just because someone likes you doesn't mean you have to go out with them.

 

[Cicciolina]

I say L - because if you go with S you'll be unsatisfied and looking at other, er, opportunities? Already, as others have said, you seem to like him more anyway from the descriptions.

Or yeah, alternatively, just choose neither, you don't go out with someone just because they like you and fit in with your life + schedule.

 

[hatty]

go with the guy that can give you the best time

its not as if ur not gonna marry any of em

 

[cyrax83]

this is fucken pathetic.
i'd say you sound as shallow as anything, and they say guys are bad, stop fucken comparing them like 2 toys or something, how about you figure out which one makes you feel special inside and know you can have a successful relationship with, not compare every little thing like their job hours against each other, geez

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

age old method: flip a coin

na seriously, why dont u just go out with each one, but not on a "date", maybe take a couple of friends along and just see which one u connect/get along with the most

 

[OZGIRL86]

The ultimate decision is up to u, id see how things go with L if it was me

 

[OZGIRL86]

From reading your post it seems ur more keen on L

 

[withoutaface]

Just pick one, and if he's an asshole dump him for the other.

 

[rumour]

If you like L, then go out with him!

You can't help it if someone else likes you!!!!

 

[veanz]

watch a couple of dawsons creek episodes and you'll find your answer