Too Soon For Relationship? (1 Viewer)

[white ferret]

I broke up with my bf over a month ago, but is it too soon to go into another relationship? I've heard something about a 48 day mourning period, which I havent quite reached. I'm 95% over my ex, but I dont want this new guy to become a rebound?

 

[jumb]

There's no rules set in stone for this sort of thing. If it feels right for you, go for it.

 

[CieL]

Sounds like someone dates because the magazine said so.

wtf is a "mourning period"? Who said one needs a mourning period?

 

[velox]

lolololozz you're from sydney girls. did you go out with a sydney boys?

 

[sanjeevprasad99]

-_- there is no "set" time
and wait till ur 100% ova him, so u know for shure this new guy wont b a rebound

 

[alby]

how do you get a mourning period after a relationship? you mourn if someone DIES..fuck some people are stupid!!

 

[Kwayera]

and wait till ur 100% ova him, so u know for shure this new guy wont b a rebound

You know, 'ova' is probably not the best substitute for 'over' in the L&R forum, considering what its actual meaning is.


Anyway, if you're feeling okay enough about it to want a relationship for the sake of the relationship, not just to spite the old one, then go for it.

 

[Antler]

how do you get a mourning period after a relationship? you mourn if someone DIES..fuck some people are stupid!!

The steps of mourning occur in many situations eg losing a job, divorce, even breaking up from your bf/gf. Not just death.

 

[munchybuddy]

if u really like tis new guy and u r goin out wid him for the right reasons (ie- not to make ur ex jealous) then go for it!!

 

[Sooj]

Lol, 48 day mourning period.

It's something like a chain letter. bullcrap.

Dunno how you feel about that, but if you feel you're ready for another relationship, go for it.

 

[white ferret]

Sounds like someone dates because the magazine said so.

wtf is a "mourning period"? Who said one needs a mourning period?

lolololozz you're from sydney girls. did you go out with a sydney boys?

i dunno, a mourning period sounded like a good idea. i think it was mentioned on some chick flick.

why does everyone assume that? but maybe they have good reason to. answer's yes.

 

[sanjeevprasad99]

You know, 'ova' is probably not the best substitute for 'over' in the L&R forum, considering what its actual meaning is.


Anyway, if you're feeling okay enough about it to want a relationship for the sake of the relationship, not just to spite the old one, then go for it.

lmao hahahahah, oh yeah, ur right, i just googled "ova" 0_0, ops, my bad
i'd like to change that to "over" lol

 

[Serius]

if u really like tis new guy and u r goin out wid him for the right reasons (ie- not to make ur ex jealous) then go for it!!

that sentence just made my eyes bleed. Learn to type like an intelligent human being or gtfo.

 

[Kwayera]

lmao hahahahah, oh yeah, ur right, i just googled "ova" 0_0, ops, my bad
i'd like to change that to "over" lol

The moral of this story is: enunciate correctly! Just because you're typing doesn't mean you have the right to be lazy!

 

[nick1048]

@ thread starter

go for it. Teen relationships are all about the sex. Enjoy.

 

[Sooj]

Mourning period. Still makes me laugh.

Hahaha.

 

[Evilo]

Mourning period. Still makes me laugh.

Hahaha.

ditto, seriously just have your cry and accept what happened - you're not married or something. dont let anyone drag you down, get back up and into the dating game again.

Mourning period is for dead people, not for dead relationships....

 

[argh11111111111]

go for it, let ihm u wanan start slow.