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Out of one relationship into another. FFS! (1 Viewer)

L3374

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I've JUST broken up with this guy i went out with for almost 6 months
I am NOT over him, and neither is he with me
it's just i felt like things were getting too difficult and he was really serious about the whole "together forever" thing.
a week or so later, another friend of mine, starts to like me and told my bestie he likes me ALOT. (he just got dumped a week after i dumped my ex)
i like him too. but im afraid of the reprecussions. my ex might do something suicidal (he already tried like twice sice we broke up)
and/or hurt this new guy.
guy #2 and i are heaps close and we helped each other through our relationship ordeals but he might be on the rebound although he claims he isnt coz hes liked me for over 2 weeks

I just wanna get my hsc years over and done with and just have fun
BUT my feelings are always screwing me over.
I HAVENT BEEN SINGLE SINCE AUGUST LAST YEAR!!
=(

and can i be classified as being on the rebound? can he?
AND WHY CAN'T I HAVE GUY FRIENDS WHO DON'T BECOME INFATUATED WITH ME??
 

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out of the frying relationship into the fire relationship!

slut
 

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hmm, well its hard to say, but if it was 6 months ago, can it be rebound??
also who do you like more, this guy or your ex?
2 weeks isnt that long really, maybe see how he goes after a little while

maybe wait til after exams
 

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hmm, well its hard to say, but if it was 6 months ago, can it be rebound??
also who do you like more, this guy or your ex?
2 weeks isnt that long really, maybe see how he goes after a little while

maybe wait til after exams
correction to my post.
I was going out with him FOR 6 months.
I only broke up with him 3 weeks ago

and yeah thats sounds good, wait til everything has settled down
 

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going out for 6 months and u didnt root him?

no wonder hes so cut up about it
 

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I love how Zombie Omie Jay hasn't replied in this thread after she posted her pic hahaha
 

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Are you a moron? If you're not ready, don't get into another relationship.
 

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correction to my post.
I was going out with him FOR 6 months.
I only broke up with him 3 weeks ago

and yeah thats sounds good, wait til everything has settled down
ahh, well then yes, give yourself time for both of you to sort out your feelings. Its going to be hard, and feel like crap, but if you wait itll hopefully be worth it.
 

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Dude, don't post your pic here! There are crazy students on the net.

Anyway...back to your dilemma. I say don't get into yourself into ANY relationships whatsoever. Just because somebody likes you, it doesn't mean you have to jump in a r'ship.
'Ooh, that cactus likes me, now I have to root it.' Not the way...not the way.

Plus, you claim the other guy is suicidal (what a douche)...it is a precarious situation, so lettuce be patient or you'll end up writing an eulogy sometime soon, yeah?

And remember, guys only want one thing. Particularly at this age. Uncontrollably. Don't believe their bullshyte.

Goooooood day sir.
 
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