i dont want a boyfriend, but what else is there? (2 Viewers)

[cleopatra]

Anyone?

if hes not my bf, what is he? and am i just dumb, and am i just using him/being used? Or does it really not matter as long as it works? I just dont have the time, and i dont like the institution of it all.

really confusing.

Does anyone else feel the same?

 

[Tenille]

huh?

 

[*~Dazed~*]

you are "seeing him" or else you can be classified as fuck buddies

 

[neo o]

"i dont want a boyfriend, but what else is there?"

A girlfriend or neither.

 

[hipsta_jess]

you have yourself either:
1) a boyfriend
2) a fuck buddy
3) a friend (ie, you are very very low down his ladder)

 

[*~Dazed~*]

Originally posted by jezzmo
i believe you have yourself a fuck buddy.

edit: it's a cruel cruel world, dazed.

what can i say, great minds think alike..

and i believe the using him/being used comes into it but hey, if its mutual then the using cancels eachother out so you are fine

 

[cleopatra]

lol. no, im not deluded! weve spoken bout it, we want everything we have now (which is a great friendship, recently recovered from the shitty ex-bf/gf stage) but with extra, but NOT the relationship we had in the past, which ruined the friendship. im talkin smack rnt i?

we wouldnt be fuck buddies i dont think cos we r closer than that. fuck buddies is no strings sex isnt it? no, not that.

and it couldnt be that, i feel VERY strong bout him. like hard to explain fellings

Originally posted by *~Dazed~*
and i believe the using him/being used comes into it but hey, if its mutual then the using cancels eachother out so you are fine

lol, thats tru, its only being used if one party doesnt like it rite?

 

[*~Dazed~*]

Originally posted by cleopatra
lol. no, im not deluded! weve spoken bout it, we want everything we have now (which is a great friendship, recently recovered from the shitty ex-bf/gf stage) but with extra, but NOT the relationship we had in the past, which ruined the friendship. im talkin smack rnt i?

we wouldnt be fuck buddies i dont think cos we r closer than that. fuck buddies is no strings sex isnt it? no, not that.

and it couldnt be that, i feel VERY strong bout him. like hard to explain fellings

im osrry buit that sounds like a relationship

 

[cleopatra]

Originally posted by *~Dazed~*
im osrry buit that sounds like a relationship

dont be 'osrry'. lol. i guess we (cos its not just me compromising for him, i feel the same) just dont want a label? with a label comes a particular way to act etc. And im afraid of commitment big time *blush*

Originally posted by Asquithian
awww swum bwaddies in wuv

......

im not sure. love? at 17

 

[porge]

you guys are just 'together'
will that satisfy you?

 

[cleopatra]

lol...sure porge youve satisfied me *wink*

well, is this silly tho? like oh, i dunno. im crazy.

 

[porge]

nuh its not silly
its non-committal

 

[kate86]

hey im the exact same as u... if it works without a label of bf and gf then why not keep it that way... it saves the whole having a bf who has to act a certain way. if you and him arre comfortable then stay that way... after all who is the label for? yous dont need it.. just other people do. if i have an actual boyfriend i worry dat its not gonna work out and everything isnt goin like it shuld be and i try too hard to make things perfect. every1 thinks im stupid for it but that's the way i like it.

 

[Ziff]

What have I told you people about relationships?! Don't!

What you need: FLOOZIES FLOOZIES FLOOZIES!

 

[baby_b]

Originally posted by Ziff
What have I told you people about relationships?! Don't!

What you need: FLOOZIES FLOOZIES FLOOZIES!

i totally agree with you.... omg ska agreeing with ziff???

 

[vanity]

i need a proper guy friend

 

[lengstar]

cleopatra, this is caesar, i'm just using you for political gain.

 

[~*HSC 4 life*~]

Originally posted by Ziff
What have I told you people about relationships?! Don't!

What you need: FLOOZIES FLOOZIES FLOOZIES!

Is that what i am to you now, huh? a FLOOZY

Originally posted by lengstar
cleopatra, this is caesar, i'm just using you for political gain.

We could bring in Antony too...but lets not go there

 

[ameh]

answer to thread title:

dildo

 

[Toodulu]

Originally posted by cleopatra
Or does it really not matter as long as it works?

ding ding ding

anyway, if you really need a label, just call him a close guy friend
it's like your friends, but if he started to see someone you'd be upset. but only because you're close. and he happens to be a guy.

haha.

hmm.

anyway just don't think too much about it.