One of my closest friends, recently broke up with her bf of 9 months (or rather, he broke up with her), and our whole group was so happy, because he was an absolute asshole. The reason he gave her for breaking up with her was because, despite the fact that she is the same religion as him and also Indian (from the same fucking state as his family!), the fact that her family lived in Malaysia for two generations meant that his family would never accept her.
This guy has been an absolute asshole to her since the breakup. He constantly rings her up, and whenever he does, she ends up crying. On the weekend at a party, she was dancing with a friend, and apparently this was enough to warrant him walking up to her and calling her a slut. She was so mad with him that she told him the next day that she didnt appreciate being called a slut, and he said "sorry, but you understand why I did it right? I mean you were being a slut" thinking that this was in some way an apology. He had the nerve to try and make her feel guilty about having FUN!
Anyway, he rang her up on tuesday night and has managed to convince her to get back with him, promising he'll change and be better to her. I have known this guy and his family since I was 3, and trust me, he hasnt changed in the last 15 years, so there's no way he's gonna change now. He's the biggest player, and no self respecting Indian chick in sydney, hell australia, will go out with him! My friend only moved here from New Zealand about a year ago, so she hasnt really had time to learn about his reputation.
So basically my question is, how do I tell her what an asshole her ex/current bf is? I know he's only going to hurt her again, but she doesnt beleive me! Ugh! I hate seeing friends hurt themselves like this!!! Any advice?
This guy has been an absolute asshole to her since the breakup. He constantly rings her up, and whenever he does, she ends up crying. On the weekend at a party, she was dancing with a friend, and apparently this was enough to warrant him walking up to her and calling her a slut. She was so mad with him that she told him the next day that she didnt appreciate being called a slut, and he said "sorry, but you understand why I did it right? I mean you were being a slut" thinking that this was in some way an apology. He had the nerve to try and make her feel guilty about having FUN!
Anyway, he rang her up on tuesday night and has managed to convince her to get back with him, promising he'll change and be better to her. I have known this guy and his family since I was 3, and trust me, he hasnt changed in the last 15 years, so there's no way he's gonna change now. He's the biggest player, and no self respecting Indian chick in sydney, hell australia, will go out with him! My friend only moved here from New Zealand about a year ago, so she hasnt really had time to learn about his reputation.
So basically my question is, how do I tell her what an asshole her ex/current bf is? I know he's only going to hurt her again, but she doesnt beleive me! Ugh! I hate seeing friends hurt themselves like this!!! Any advice?
